How can we stop arguing?

Question

I am a taurus sun with aquarius moon and my boyfriend is a gemini sun with leo moon. What will one of us or both of us have to do to lessen our arguing?

Answer 1

It takes two to argue right

So if one of you cut off the energy of arguing the other person will give up
All you have to say is :"I am here to talk but not to argue" and walk away
If that is impossible take the option of writing what you have to say on a paper, let the other person read it, and reply until what ever the problem is is solved
Usually what ever you both are arguing about has nothing to do with the problem at all
Some small problem you both can not discuss turns into little bits and pieces to argue about lol
I hope that helps you as it has been good advice that I have gave that has helped many : )

Love & Blessings
Milly

Answer 2

Here's the psychology of it as I see it - Leo and aquarius are polar opposites. There is a 180 degree difference in their emotional natures and both are right - there are always 2 side to a story. But the leo and the aquarius connect better with the gemini than with taurus. Because of that I say you should let the gemini win the arguments about emotional issues and lofty idealistic unreal playful things. Also let them win when it comes to communication equipment (internet, phone, video, anything to do with writing). That stuff is core to Gemini.
Taurus is not left out in the cold here. Taurus is wiser about money, food, love, sex, planning for the future, ... the general practical down to earth things. So gemini and the moons (including yours) should agree to bow to the wisdom of taurus on earthly things. It may be hard for the Leo to take, so watch out. Point him toward some important communication thing that he should organize or something he will be the boss over.

Now all you have to do is come to an agreement about it?

that was fun. good luck.

Answer 3

You are a Taurus which means you are stubborn. Period. I know you mean well, but I am willing to bet you do not concede on your decisions or points of view often. This is one thing that is negative about being a Taurus that you will need to overcome in order to stop the arguing. My boyfriend is a Taurus and he DOES NOT give in during an argument. The best thing I can do? Just walk away from him. I know he hates it, but if I give him time to cool down he will think about it and come back and realize I was right...life is too short to argue. Way too short. We only have so long in this life to have fun and remember the good times....why waste time arguing?
Just sit him down and talk to him. Acknowledge your faults, tell him you love being with him and if its worth it to the both of you...then you will make it work.

Answer 4

When Taurus and Gemini come together in a love affair, they must both take the time to learn what the dynamics of the relationship are and how they can best get along. They both have much to offer one another and much to learn in this relationship, but it will take a bit of adjustment and effort on both sides. Gemini's Symbol is the Twins; this Sign can often be of two minds about things. If possessive Taurus is able to let go and give one Twin the relationship security and intimacy it wants while allowing the other Twin its freedom, things will go well between these two. Taurus may want too much for Gemini's taste early in the relationship, but Gemini can become dependable and steady -- Taurus must simply be patient.

Taurus's sedate, practical approach to life differs greatly from Gemini's more light, intellectual approach. This can be a difficult dynamic, since Gemini may see Taurus as a bit dull while Taurus may see Gemini as flighty and lacking in substance. They have much to teach one another, however: Taurus can help Gemini become more deeply involved in life; Gemini can help Taurus add variety, fun and excitement to their life.

Taurus is ruled by the Planet Venus (Love) and Gemini is ruled by the Planet Mercury (Communication). Since both of these Planets are close to the Sun, they're always in the same neighborhood even though they're very different. Venus is all about physical pleasures, romance and sensuality. Mercury has both masculine and feminine energy, and Gemini takes on whichever energy best serves at any given moment. Taurus is just looking for a dependable, sensual partner, so Gemini's brilliance may be lost on the Bull. This may be trouble, since Geminis often feel like their quick wits are the most important thing about themselves. The good thing is, Gemini is smart enough to learn to be the romantic, sensual partner that Taurus craves.

Taurus is an Earth Sign and Gemini is an Air Sign. Gemini makes decisions based on intellect (and whim), while Taurus is more practical. Taurus asks, ""How will this help me achieve my goals in life?"" while Gemini goes with the moment, never feeling too pressured to stick to a set plan. If Taurus gives in to those Bullish possessive feelings, or if Gemini is aloof and detached (as they often are), this relationship may suffer. Both Signs must strive to stay open and flexible in order to make this union work. Though Gemini seems unpredictable, Taurus can learn to understand that although Gemini may flirt, the relationship is still important to them. And though Taurus seems overly stubborn, Gemini must use their flexibility to bend to their partner's will on occasion.

Taurus is a Fixed Sign and Gemini is a Mutable Sign. Taurus tends to focus on one thing, person, idea at a time, while Gemini moves from one thing (or person) to the next according to impulse. Taurus must provide Gemini with ample independence and breathing space -- and try to learn Gemini's lesson, that versatility is sometimes better than a Fixed determination to do things one's own way.

What's the best aspect of the Taurus-Gemini relationship? The security the two can give each other once Taurus allows Gemini to offer that security freely. As long as both partners communicate with each other, theirs will be a stable and happy relationship.

Answer 5

you guys are old enough 2 no wat u r arguing 4 and its not time 2 argue is time 2 love and care 4 each other. u better hold on 2 him and love him b 4 someone takes care ands love him. Taje it fromme cause imma leo and well watever. I don't beleive in those horoscopes. Its not true. So that is my advice 2 u.

Answer 6

Simply stop. It is not hard to do one cannot have an argument by themselves so if one of you refuses to respond to an argumentive statement there cannot be an argument.

Answer 7

Just by a real smile, that makes both of you calm.

Answer 8

One of you will have to concede. Since you're asking for help, then you should concede - let him be right, even if you know you are.

Answer 9

put plaster onto his mouth.