He has gay tendencies and says a lot of iffy things. I'm not saying gay men act the same. It's not that, but I notice he does things that a heterosexual man wouldn't do or say. He is a good man, but I'm not sure if he needs to be with a woman. He would rather hang out with the "girls" than with the guys. He has a lot of gay male friends. He has even gone to gay nightclubs, but he says he just likes the crowd. what's going on?
2006-11-07 03:55:00 · 14 answers · asked by errbyleerby 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
There is nothing wrong with being gay-friendly. Most of my friends are str8 men, but that doesn't make me a heterosexual. Also, I think some of my str8 friends 'act' more gay than I do. Leave your friend's husband alone to be however he wants.
2006-11-07 06:44:04 · answer #1 · answered by Spyder 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can have gay tendencies and not be gay I mean now there is that whole metrosexual. I mean I have a couple of straight friends that come with me all the time to gay bars but it is just because we are friends. I mean does he date women or has he not been with one in a while. I mean if need to know whether or not he is gay just ask him I mean make a joke out of it or something so he doesnt think your serious if he says no. But say it when it is just you two I mean people dont like to be outed when it is front of tons of people. But good luck with whatever you do.,
2006-11-07 10:45:31 · answer #2 · answered by brandenbaby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OOOOOH pal, I can definitely relate, I feel as though my husband Troi is a gays also with his best pal, Steve. They are always together, chatting on the phone every day for hours sharing secrets and telling jokes only gays would know. It is very frustratings and Troi and Steve definitely give each other strange eye contacts and sometimes they hold hands secretly which is very uncomfortable.
2016-05-22 07:34:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well so far things are adding up on the gay side. But that is when you look at only one side of the information. If he is not your man I say leave that mess for them to figure out and you keep out of it - only two people need to be worrying about his sexuality, him and his wife.
2006-11-07 06:45:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't understand why people come into this section and ask this questions.
How the hell should we know? Just because we are gay doesn't mean that if you give us a brief description of someone's behaviors we can accurately say yes or no.
2006-11-07 04:39:01 · answer #5 · answered by Yikes! 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
hey mayb he is bi-sexual.....or mayb hes characters liked dat..like u know if u have a lot of frnds who r lesbians,its not necessary u will become 1 but if u stay wit dem long enough u will start gettig some of their characteristics...it happens..and u know dey r lesbians...den y do u hang out wit dem-cause u enjoy it..dey mite b fun to hang out with...his case must be d same.....he may not b gay but he jus likes hanging out with dem mayb cause dey respect him and dey r darn fun to be with....jus cause he hangs out wit dem or goes wher dey go doesnt mean he is one of dem...or he mite be gay..u may never know.....its hard to find out...hey but hmmm am not sure he wud try to hide it if he is gay..anyway u could always ask....
2006-11-07 04:08:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Stay out of his business.
2006-11-07 04:13:17 · answer #7 · answered by missgigglebunny 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
gay
2006-11-07 04:39:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
From what you've said, it seems that he could possibly be bi or gay.
Maybe it's time your friend and her husband have a talk.
2006-11-07 03:57:36 · answer #9 · answered by ByTheSea 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Sounds to me that he "goes both ways"..
A BiSexual Male, in simple terms..
2006-11-07 03:57:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋