Does your sister bring home men you HATE??? My sister has dated nice, decent, respectful, smart guys w/good jobs but ends up breaking it off w/them because they're "boring", "emotionally vacant" or some other blather.
Then she falls hard for these lying, loudmouth, drunken, usually lazy, and usually jobless idiots and she adores them. I guess you can call them "bad boys". Some treat her bad. Some have stolen money from her. They all have "big dreams" and are full of baloney. One has been committed. When these creeps touch her in front of me I get very angry. My sister was never abused at home, we have a very nice family. She's very pretty, educated, and has a great job. Why does she adore creeps? She seems to almost thrive on relationship turmoil. I've seen lots of other women adore scumbags but I just can't understand it. Help me see! And should I be civil to these *ssholes (so far I can't be nice to them, I'm her brother).
2006-11-07 03:49:20 · 5 answers · asked by Babyface 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I cannot answer your question because that type of man turns me off. However, I'm running the risk of being reported to say that I admire you for your obvious compassion and protective feelings toward your sister. You are a great male influence in her life and hopefully she will settle down with someone more like you...
Good luck to both of you.
2006-11-07 03:52:51 · answer #1 · answered by Pepper 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hey Good Brother,
Speaking from experience I'd have to say your sister doesn't have the self-esteem that she should. When you don't feel good about yourself and respect yourself and really love yourself you are not going to look for someone that is going to do that also. For years (I'm 41 married 4 kids) I didn't have the self worth and was magnetized to all the scumbags. But with God's help I now know who I am. I love me and I like me...and I no longer feel that someone has to validate me. I don't need to look for others to make me okay. God's done that for me! And I'm truly content and fulfilled in my life. You keep talking to that sister of yours. She'll get it. Wendy K.
2006-11-07 03:59:46 · answer #2 · answered by Wendy K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for some reason some women feel like that is what they deserve and that they dont deserve better. you neec to sit an talk to you sister about why she personaly dates men like that before she ends up getting really hurt.
2006-11-07 03:55:41 · answer #3 · answered by adnama_n_werd 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because women loves drama. but i agree with you.
2006-11-07 03:51:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she thinks she can FIX them with love, been there done that, tee shirt in the attic of my mind.......
2006-11-07 03:52:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋