I got real big problem with my wife she say what min is your and your is mine i not belive that i work its mine she not work she have nothing why should I give her money for her to save if she want something she ask you understand what i say.. is all white girl so greedy... how to i stop her for take my money my family need more than her.
2006-11-07 03:24:17 · 12 answers · asked by mex_75 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
marry lady not need to work she my wife she cook and clean not question ask and we got 2 kids she need to have everything clean and cook before 3:00 i not need to give her money my ma and pa need money more than she do she just mad i give to my family and not her
2006-11-07 04:01:30 · update #1
you are a greedy S.O.B. she is your wife. she is entitled to anything that is yours. she needs to save some money and DIVORCE you
2006-11-07 03:29:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
That's pretty bad. You do all the work. You must do all the house work and cooking as well. I bet she just stays in bed doing nothing all day. Terrible, just terrible.
Get your head out of your nether regions! Saying your wife doesn't make the money doesn't mean she doesn't contribute a good deal to the household. Perhaps you should compute how much you'd have to pay someone to cook, clean, raise kids (if you have any) and whatever else she does, then pay her that amount. Then she'll be earning her money and you won't be just getting the value of a wife for free, like a dead-beat.
2006-11-07 03:28:57 · answer #2 · answered by Radagast97 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
In the United States, when you get married, everything you own becomes joint property - material goods as well as financial assets and income.
You should meet with a couples therapist, and a financial planner, to work out the issues that you and your wife have, and to best protect yourselve from this alleged "gold-digger".
At the least, she should get a job. There is no excuse for being an unproductive member of society unless there is a severe physical or mental condition impacting your ability to seek employment.
2006-11-07 03:28:50 · answer #3 · answered by Heath 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She doesn't work? Oh, so you must have a cook and a maid and a house cleaner and a nanny for the children.
If that is so, congratulations, you are rich and can afford to give her some money. If that is not so, figure out how much all of those jobs would pay and give her what she is worth.
2006-11-07 03:31:27 · answer #4 · answered by lunatic 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
staying at home and taking care of a household with kids is a lot tougher and a lot more work than going to a job outside the home.
You should appreciate your wife. Maybe you should stay home cook, clean and take care of the kids while she works. I'm sure you would not be able to handle it.
I stay at home with my son and take care of the household and I give my husband an allowance! Maybe your wife should do the same with you.
2006-11-07 15:25:06 · answer #5 · answered by jns 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If she is cooking and cleaning and taking care of your kids then she IS working loser.
Why don't YOU stay home with the kids and SHE can go out and get a job. Then YOU can not have any money.
You are a third world freak. Woman are PEOPLE not property.
2006-11-07 06:03:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well I'm white girl but in most respects once you marry it dose become whats yours is mine and mine is yours. She might not be working but if she is cooking, cleaning your home well then yes you should share and not be so greedy your self
2006-11-07 03:28:29 · answer #7 · answered by cc 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make sure she aint joking first, then tell her family should always come first. Not all white women are greedy. Every man I have been with I always share the money and responsibilities so tell her that family first then her. I think you should put your foot down!
2006-11-07 03:29:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a separate bank account that only you can get into. I learned that the hard way after two wives left and cleaned out our accounts. Now I have mine, and she has hers, and I give when needed.
2006-11-07 03:28:12 · answer #9 · answered by flashpro 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If shes your WIFE...then too bad so sad!!!!
Your stuck...if you start trying to controll your money more and keeping it away from her. She'll leave you! But if thats what you want....they hey...good luck friend!
Trying helping her find a job...Tell her to get your *** off the couch and work a little....even if she did part-time...that could really help out...
GOOD LUCK!!!!!!
2006-11-07 03:28:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋