I am engaged to a wonderful man. He is the love of my life. When we first sarted dating our relatiionship was not stable. I wasn't attracted to him then. He wanted someone who was affectionate but I didn't kiss, hug or even hold his hands. Many times he has told me he loved me from the day he met me. But I was a different person then. Everytime I had an issue with him I would talk to my big sis, my mom & my best friend. I found out recently he talked to his parents, uncle, best friend & his co-workers too when he had an issue with me. But then one day I woke up & changed to be a better person. Now I am head over heals in love with him. I stopped discussing things with my sis. She didn't like him when she met him. He felt the same about her. My sis is my maid of honer & she was upset because first I picked my best friend to be the maid of honer. So I had to pick my sis as maid of honor. Last night I discussed things with her again & she doesn't like my fiance one bit. I am sad.
2006-11-07 02:58:11 · 6 answers · asked by Hot C 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
A lot of times it is hard for sisters and friends to like your bf or fiance because you have told them so much about the hard times that you guys have had together, I have found that when you are upset it is very easy to call your family/friends and tell them all about how he has made you mad and hurt your feeling. We always tell about the bad, but sometimes forget to tell about the good things, then that makes the family/friends not like him.
As far as her being mad about the maid of honor thing, that is just pety.....there is no sense in her acting like a child about it, she got her way so tell her to quit whining! lol!
2006-11-07 03:10:27 · answer #1 · answered by TNL 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is the prime example of why you dont discuss your relationship with friends are family, they listen to you whine and complain so much until they develop a "dislike' for the person cause of you!!!
You need to have family get together and air out all your likes and dislikes hopefully then they can began to rebuild a a more positive relationship...
2006-11-07 11:07:29 · answer #2 · answered by voluptoustaureanfemale 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She dislikes him because of the things you had previously discussed with her about him.
Hard to mend things really soon, try the other way round this time. Keep telling her good things about him every day.
Talk to your sister, she only wants you to be happy, tell her you really want a future with this guy and tell her you want her to accept him because it would really mean a lot to you.
2006-11-07 11:19:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anne H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She doesnt like him because she basically is focused on the things that you had discussed with her previously. Its natural for her to feel this way, but she needs to understand that you have now made a choice and she needs to accept it. Please tell her so. Tell her that you would like to continue have a good communication relationship with her and if she doesnt come around, that may not happen.
2006-11-07 11:02:17 · answer #4 · answered by JC 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you wrote this question yesterday and stated you weren't affectionate due to your cultural religious beliefs.
When members of your family dislike your fiancee, that's a sign. Listen to it. They would never steer you wrong.
2006-11-07 11:08:41 · answer #5 · answered by Rachel 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
UR SISTER IS GETTING IN YOUR WAY YOU NEED TO STOP TALKING TO HER ABOUT HIM CAUSE SHELL JUST TRY TO STOP U FROM MARRING HIM CUZ SHE DONT LIKE HIM.
MARRI THE MAN YALL BOTH WANT IT. AND DONT WORRY ABOUT YOUR SISTER RIGHT NOW SHE WILL COME AROUND MAKE THIS ABOUT YOU FOR ONCE!!!!!!!
2006-11-07 11:03:41 · answer #6 · answered by slick_chik316 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋