age difference?

Question

me and my boyfriend were talking for about 8 months b4 we acually got together weve been together since sep 8 so weve been together for two months for one do you think that 8 mnts is long enough to talk b4 acually getting with him and another thing hes 25 and im 17 we didnt have sex un till maby two weeks ago for the fsrt time he actes the same as before we even had sex for the first time i like evry thing about him ad im in love with him do you have to love b4 ur in luv with some and another thing he takes me out to dinner we hold hands and we doo the kissy kissy thing in the open like in public i want to ask another question two weeks ago we were having sex an thenin the morning we were in the shower together and he pulled out b4 he came and he came all down my butt and i felt my vagina and i felt the but area and it was the same fluid and i just finished my period two days b4 what does this mean i cant be preganant

Answer 1

The legal age to consent for sex is 16, I dont get why its ok for s 35 year old to date and marry a 22 year old but its not okay for a 25 year old to date a 17 year old. Since you were friends for 8 months before you were offically a "Couple" and got to know him it ok, its not like you jumped his bones 2 minutes after you met him.

To answer your question, your probably not pregnant since you had ended your period 2 days previous but since youve decided to have sex I would use some form of birth control My friend who is also 17 is engaged to a guy whos 22 and shes been on birth control since before they even thought about having sex. If you choose to have sex you have to be responisible because having a baby when your only 17 could ruin your life.

Im not critizing you since Im 17 and my ex boyfriend was a senior in high school when I was a freshman we only recently broke up due to the fact that he was incapeable of being only 2 hours away and sleeping in his own bed, So age really doesnt matter if you love that person it wont matter and it shouldnt matter

Answer 2

If you are 17 and he is 25 it is against the law for him to have sex with you even if you are willing. As a minor you are not legally able to give consent. It is unlikely to get pregnant 2 days after your period, but it can happen. You should always use protection, and pulling out doesn't count as protection. I don't really think that 8 years is that big of an age difference, but you should wait until you are at least 22 or 23 before you start dating this guy. Where are your parents that you are having sex in the shower in the morning?

Answer 3

He's 25 and you're 17? I am going to severely restrain myself on this one although I want to shake some sense into you and rip him a new butthole for having sex with a minor. But at 17, I guess you are old enough to accept the consequences of your actions.

First, you are not in love with someone you've been dating for only 2 months. Time to grow up if you want to play in the adult world. Next, stop referring to anything you do as the "kissy kissy thing." No 25 year old does anything that's called a "kissy kissy" anything.

Now for the important stuff. Pulling out does not guarantee you won't get pregnant. So of course you CAN be pregnant. If you don't know what causes pregnancy, you should NOT be having sexual relations with anyone. So get yourself and your bf to the doctor or clinic for HIV/AIDS and STD testing. Then, practice safe sex and birth control -- that's bc pills and condoms!

Answer 4

.Honey people judge a LOT! Some people here are telling you its illegal but that their partner have the same age difference so go figure! I'm 21 and my husband is 29, Sometimes its better to be with someone older than an immature boy your age, I'm not saying you are Immature I'm talking about boys, when they are young they don't know what they want and play with you, its not the end of the world, just be more careful when u have sex, use protection ALWAYS! you can not only get pregnant but you can get std, I dont think you are pregnant if you had your period 2 days before that you couldn't be ovulating. You'll be 18 in no time and it will be legal so dont worry i think if he just wanted to have sex with you he wouldnt have waited 8 months and would have looked for another girl. Good luck

Answer 5

i'm 17 and some months in the past i began relationship the son of a relations buddy who's 27, so as it really is 10 years and that i not in any respect cared about the age distinction and neither did he. We met even as i became stepping into city and his father and mom requested him to assist. After that we'd see one yet another at relations and acquaintances BBQ's and then at my aunts wedding ceremony we began relationship. And 10 years age distinction to me isn't even a huge deal so 3 years isn't something. in case you imagine about it this type we were a decade aside and also you 2 are not even 1/2 a decade aside. My suggestion will be to ask her to espresso or lunch, not as a date although so no dinner (considering that dinner is more effective like a date) and so then she receives to charm to close you more effective and maximum in all chance she will be able to understand that particular you've been born 3 years aside in spite of the indisputable fact that it does not recommend that you 2 cant date. tell her that you're nonetheless fascinated yet that you realize what she thinks about it and then say that it's not in any respect a date that its in basic terms eating espresso (or tea) with some effective organization and communication.

Answer 6

My boyfriend was 24 when we met and I was 17 but we didn't even date or anything like that until a while later. I think you should have thought about the pregnancy thing before you had unprotected sex with him. Yes, there is a possibility you could be pregnant and it would be just as much your fault as it would be his and at this point if I was your mother I would have him put in jail because he shouldn't have been having sex with a minor.
But another thing...does your parents know you spend the night with this guy? That's really wrong.

Answer 7

First the chances of getting pregnant while close to the end of the beginning of your period are minimal but not impossible, second as of the age difference a lot of hypocrites out there whose husbands might be a lot older than they are, think by indoctrination (being told since kids) that is a bad match since he is older, which is not at all true, is it illegal? yes, does that mean you are not meant to be? absolutely not, if you two do mean to be together make sure you take the adequate precautions and be responsible if he loves you the way he says actions prove more than words, he should think about you and u getting pregnant is not going to help you in a future with him, I wish both of you good luck!!!!!

Answer 8

you seem rather immature for 17.. I was somewhat confused reading your question...

age difference is important.. especially when you are younger.. it would be different if you were 50 and he was 57 - then it wouldnt matter so much
but maturity at young ages makes a big difference.. why would a 25 yr old guy be with a 17 yr old girl?? its not because they have alot in common...so I warn you to take caution

even if a guy pulls out you can get pregnant - use protection.. but even then you can still get AIDS or other STD...
better to be SURE you are going to be with a person for a long long time..

Answer 9

well, first of all, don't trust pulling out unless you're on birth control because i got pregnant doing that. if you finished your period two days before, chances are you're not because you're not ovulating until around 10 days after your period, but if your next period is late, i'd suggest doing a test just in case.

i've always dated older guys as well, and as long as you understand that there will come times when the age difference will matter, and you're cool with that, then it's fine. at least i think so. age is just a number unless the guy is an ***, and in that case you may have trouble.

Answer 10

First of all he can get in trouble for being with you. If your parents for example do not like him they can press charges on him. 8 months is pleny of time to get to know someone as long as they are not being fake. You are probably not pregnant b-cuz you usually ovulate about 2 weeks after the first day of your period. A woman's body produces natural juices when we are aroused and it is possible that it was you.