do you think its important to keep ur virginity till marriage?

Question

i belong to a culture that insists so

Answer 1

You determine the importance yourself. It depends on your belief and perspective.
Some cultures and religions such as yours consider it essential for women in particular, to stay a virgin till marriage. Men are expected to follow the norms as well. Men are expected to follow the norms as well. It is not clear if you are a man or a woman. Anyway, if you want to stay true to your religion and culture, remain a virgin till your marriage. It will do you no harm to stay a virgin till you are married. On the contrary, you will be able to savour the joys of sex more after you are married. Its well worth waiting.
But if for some reason you are getting married at 40 or 50, I don't think it is sensible to be a virgin that long. In doing so, you will be depriving yourself of years of precious joy derived from sex.
And if you consider sex as a natural act just like any other, then what is the difference whether you start at 18 or 40?
Finally, as I said at the beginning, it depends on you.

Answer 2

Absolutely! My husband did and I didn't and I regret it to this day. The risk of having premarital children or Std's is very high. My regret has a lot to do with comparison. If you meet the right guy and you have both saved yourselves you have nothing to compare to. You will be fully satisfied. If not, you can work on these things together as a couple. Do you really want to marry someone who is just good in bed? It gives you more criteria then you need when choosing a mate then you need. Plus guys these days tend to respect women more that don't give it out right away. When all is said and done you have to do what is right for you. But think with your brain, not your hormones. Don't do something you could end up regretting.

Answer 3

I belong to a religion that insists so and I did stay a virgin until I was 19 and was raped. I'm now 22 and I look back on it and know if I wasn't a virgin then I would not have been raped because he wanted to "Own" me. When "I" finally decided to do it I was 21.

The last thing I will say is it is ultimately your choice and know one can make it for you. Even if you are raped it just the phyisical part no one can take the emontional part from you. The emontional part is your choice.

Answer 4

it somewhat is no longer genuine that, for the era of history and between all cultures, virginity has been substantial. It has to do extra with a shift to patrilinear (that's based on the daddy's line) components and ability inheritance. in the previous the days of dna/blood exams, the only factor all of us ought to ascertain of replaced into who the mummy replaced into - yet, in case you're monitoring lineage by the daddy it turns into substantial that the daddy is, certainly, the daddy. the valuables/ability explanation is supported once you hint the Western documents for situations of romantic "love" - no actual point out 'til Heloise and Abelarde, as far as i've got been able to be sure. And, referencing patri. v. matrilinear social shape, seem on the various Jewish communities that be sure baby's get right of entry to to the subculture by the mummy, no longer the daddy - can't argue that the mummy is the mummy. the assumption (if no longer the unquestionably practice) is firmly imbedded in Western subculture, supported via transition anxieties, rules, cultural rites, and, to a lots lesser volume than you will possibly think of, concern of STDs.

Answer 5

its totally depends on a person mental make up. If a person just believe in happy go marry life, then the qus of virginity is totally irrelevant as such person does not care for his/her partner virginity but on the other hand if u want a virgin partner than u should also kept urself virgin.

Answer 6

I think it depends on how important it is to you and your culture. That's the way it is supposed to be. I only know of one person who did this, and that's my brother. He felt it was very important to do so and he did...he was almost 27 years old when he got married. I think you need to really think about this and how it will effect you and what you believe in. Best of luck.......

Answer 7

No I do not think that keeping your virginity is a good idea. Life is way too short to spend it with someone that does not like sex or has other issues. It is also too short to spend with a man that is "too short". I think you should know what you are getting before you say I do. That would make the divorce rate much lower.

Answer 8

It is important to keep ones virginity till she/he marries for the first time so that they can enjoy its pleasure

Answer 9

what is important is what u think!
virginity is a one time thing and its urs to give to anybody u chose
keepin it till marraige would be a safe way out though

Answer 10

I don't believe in waiting till marriage. Right or wrong, I DO believe in waiting for the right person. My daughter is 17, and in this day, it isn't realistic(only idealistic) to wait till marriage.