She gave a really lame excuse for not coming to my wedding, she didn't even send me an RSVP nor did she send me a wedding card saying "congratulations". We haven't spoken since she told me she wasn't coming - that was in August. I e-mailed some wedding photos to her and she hasn't commented on that either! I am hurt at the way she has treated me.
2006-11-07 01:57:21 · 11 answers · asked by No-ni-nu 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
There is no way in hell i would mail this person a birthday card...she is NOT your friend.
2006-11-07 01:59:07 · answer #1 · answered by BiancaVee 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
according to me, if she was/is ur best frnd she would have been there with you throughout your wedding and even after that.after all why are best frnds for?dont expect anything from people like these, you'll only end up hurting yourself more.do send her a b'day card just for a formality.if she is "really" your friend then she would feel guilty for what she has done.if not forget it and get on with your life.i mean you are newly married and you definetely have much more important things to do than worry about a so called frnd who didn't turn up for your wedding.dont worry be happy and enjoy life.
P.S-congragulations by the way.happy married life :)
2006-11-07 03:02:28 · answer #2 · answered by radhika 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
attempt to be asking your self why he felt he ought to no longer be up front with you and not why he did no longer make it easier to realize, of direction he's no longer gonna say something its obtrusive he theory you will possibly disprove and start to question him on his reasoning and that's precisely what you probably did i'm specific. no longer basically that yet belittling him on the comparable time for being outstanding to an previous pal or lady pal in love or no longer in love all of us is human beings and outstanding all of us is the strangest of all and remember she broke up with him perhaps he feels that in the time of a few small way a birthday card sent to somebody on their birthday is a small gesture to declare i'm nevertheless a sturdy guy even with the previous and notably else i'm sorry. Now this could be somewhat complicated to entice close thinking the 1st situation which will pop into your recommendations would be whats he have been given to be sorry for yet this is the situation movements do communicate louder than words extraordinarily for words that bypass unstated. do no longer enable something as small as a birthday card or a lie that replaced into meant to maintain from entering into the situation to hand run your determination. Oh and that i might say except you seize him messing around with somebody else (ie. snoozing at the same time) then do no longer smash your relationship because of the fact you enable your thoughts get the main suitable of you. i'm hoping this is powerful and revel later on with the guy you look after.
2016-10-15 11:47:11 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's prob. jealous and insecure that nothings going on in her life as you move forward with yours. What ever is with her she has to work it out herself. If you want to have her as a friend when/if she comes to her senses you should mail her a card. Maybe she's having a bad time but didn't want to burdon you with it at this time in your life. Anything is possible. You obviousely want to give her a chance so what's to loose by sending a card?
2006-11-07 02:05:36 · answer #4 · answered by somethingelse 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Instead of "emailing" your friend why not telephone or meet your friend in person without a hidden agenda. Let your friend know up front that you feel as if they have ignored you and you don't understand why. Once you know the "why" they've ignored you maybe there is a simple answer that can clear the issue up!!
2006-11-07 02:00:56 · answer #5 · answered by KC V ™ 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
your kind of being a little self centered...have you ever stopped and thought that she had previous plans with family or something. maybe she couldnt make it. maybe she got sick.
maybe she is in love with your husband and couldnt bare it...maybe whatever it is...yes you should send her a birthday card...if she is your best friend.
2006-11-07 02:32:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi,you should definately send her a birthday card.becoz if you do the same thing what will be the difference between both of you.
2006-11-07 02:02:54 · answer #7 · answered by saffron 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would just to show I was a bigger person -you know the old saying " kill them with kindness"
2006-11-07 02:01:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, two wrongs don't make a right and you don't have to worry about it because GOD will handle it.
2006-11-07 02:00:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is not a good friend so forget about her.like she did about you
2006-11-07 02:09:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋