If you came home to find your man in your clothes what would you do?

Question

If you came home and found your man dressed in your heels, hosiery and lingerie how would you react?

If he just had a penchant, how would this affect your relationship?

What if he wanted to wear heels, lingerie and hosiery everyday mixed with his male clothes? Or if he wanted to wear a skirt and dress as a girl from the waist down but be a guy from the waist up?

Would / Could you appreciate his smooth legs and tight butt looking good in heels and hosiery?

Looking at the answers below, why is it that some comments that seemingly originate from females are soooo harsh. What is it that scares or rises such hostility, unforgiving and general inacceptance of peoples desire to be themselves and not conform to stereotypical ideals?

Answer 1

I was thinking about something like this just the other day, how liberated women are to be able to wear what they like suits, trousers, ties no one bats an eyelid - yet if a man wears a skirt or make up everyone throws a hoohaa and the guy is labelled a pervert or worse. This is simply not right, I hope that society will overcome this shameful stigma rapidly and appreciate that we should be able to wear what we like when we like.

I wish you the best of luck with what you do, but don't keep this as a thing which you are embarrassed or ashamed about - the more people who are proud of who they are, I firmly believe, the faster society will accept it. And if you are planning to surprise your partner with your stilettos I advise you warn them because you don't want any of the above narrow-minded reactions :)

Answer 2

I would walk in, giggle, tell him it is ok, but dear really we should get some hose in your size, and take him to the store for some new shoes. There is nothing wrong with cross-dressing in fact it can be fun, I love putting make up on my guy and then going out dressed as women together. It's not hurting anyone, and he gets to let out his "more femme" side. and It is so fun! Do you know how many times we have been taken for 2 girls going out to have fun?

Answer 3

It is one thing to "be yourself", it is another to have some neurosis or problem that is somewhat unacceptable to other people. One could say a paedophile is just "being himself" but that does not mean his behaviour is correct or acceptable.
Many women would find it unacceptable for a man to wish to wear their clothes. Nothing wrong with it, they just would be turned off.
You asked this question on Yahoo, so you must be prepared for various opinions.
Personally, if I were a woman, I would find it a distinct turn-off if my hubby wore my clothes. I would have to leave him.
If you are willing to accept this behaviour and find it not off-putting, that is fine.
But don't criticise others for finding it weird or odd. To some people it is.

Answer 4

I would be too embarrassed to be seen with him! then again, i would be in a very difficult position if i loved him a lot! I would ask him why he suddenly decided to dress as a woman and what he was thinking!

Answer 5

I'd say 'Cecil, my house man what are you doing in my suits?" Oh I see this question was directed toward women. My bad.

I don't know if you're the man but if you are you should be open with your lady prior to her coming home and finding you.

Answer 6

I wouldn't be able to carry on with him after that. It's not a matter of passing judgement, but he wouldnt turn me on in the same way anymore. I am very girly and I like to dress up in pretty clothes and heels. I am attracted to a more traditionally butch man, they make me feel like the feminine one and that's something I need in a sexual relationship. A man who dressed like me wouldn't be able to push my buttons in the same way, it sounds very superficial but that's my instinctive response. Sexual feelings, or lack thereof, are not something I can control.

But I have a female friend who IS attracted to men who dress in a traditionally "girly" way. It really turns her on when a man wears her clothes! So there is absolutely a market for it, even if it's ot the majority preference.

Answer 7

Get him to buy you some new clothes!!! Seriously it could be fun as a game, but I'm not sure I could take it all the time.

Answer 8

Im a lesbain-- so there is no chance of that happening. however, i simply adore men in drag, really camp gay guys- they're blo.ody marvelous. So it really wouldn't bother me-- i'd probably, help them to sheve their butts or something...lol

Answer 9

Each to their own, my biggest concern would be that I had a boyfriend who could fit into my clothes

Answer 10

I'd be shocked they would fit for a start, I mean also I know it doesn't mean they are gay but I would be a bit freaked out by it I think. I'd get over it eventually if I loved them tho. But no I can'timagine finding it sexy.