i was mad at my friend but i was gonna forgive her in school but then during the weekend, she sent me an e-mail calling me a ***** and a whole bunch of other things. do i stay friends and say sorry or cuss her out?
2006-11-07 01:21:30 · 8 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
the reason we were fighting was kinda stupid so i was gonna forgive her yesterday when i would see her in school. but during the weekend she started calling me a ***** and w/e and she says that im stuck up. i have never disrespected her or anybody this is the first time i get into a fight with someone. shes getting me really angry and its not only me her other friends are telling me that shes turning into a girl shes hanging out with and that girl happens to be the meanest girl in the school. i talked to my sister and she said that i shouldnt really be her friend because shes disrespecting me when i didnt say anything to her. shes the one who sent me the e-mail anyways i didnt send it to her.
2006-11-07 01:31:55 · update #1
and why should i say sorry i didnt do anything to her! when i was mad at her i didnt say anything to her
2006-11-07 01:35:58 · update #2
ok maybe not cuss her out. just not be her friend
2006-11-07 01:40:44 · update #3
Anyone who cusses you out and call you a ***** is not a true friend to you. If you keep talking to her and trying to explain what really happened, she will just keep arguing with you and will make you even more upset. For now, I would cut ties with her or at least cut ties until she quits hagning with that bad influence. Personally if a "friend" of mine called me names and cussed me out in an email, I would reply and cuss them back out just to get it off my chest. If she tried to send me another email, I would delete it without reading it and continue to ignore her. If you decide she's not worth the trouble or the stress, then leave her be until she comes to her senses.
2006-11-07 03:01:36 · answer #1 · answered by melcar12345 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Friendship is a mutual investment of time and emotions and many other things.
Think about what made you happy that she is your friend.
Recall the times she helped you out.
Think of the reasons she made you happy and smile and make you grow as a person.
If you can't think of anything or if you don't get much growth in this friendship or perhaps the bad things outweigh the good things you reap from your friendship, then do not try to salvage your friendship with this person.
He/she might be an emotional garbage lagging you down.
It is her loss. Move on.
Get new friends who make you feel good about yourself.
Good luck.
2006-11-07 01:50:11 · answer #2 · answered by hello 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on what she did that upset u. If u didnt cuss her out first, its no reason why she should've did it 2 u. Anyways, a true friend would come 2 u and try to resolve what went wrong if they valued their friendship with u. U can still forgive her, but if she wants to continue to be an a**hole, leave her alone, that means she wasnt a true friend to begin with!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-11-07 01:26:10 · answer #3 · answered by Joslyn M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to talk to her. If she still wants to cuss you out, then forget it. If someone is that immature to cuss and act like an idiot, without talking to you first, that you don't really need a "friend" like that anyway.
2006-11-07 02:01:16 · answer #4 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm no doctor, but u shuld just either send her an e-mail back saying sorry or tell it to her straight. friends are valuble things, u dont want to lose them. so now i leave u with this thought. just say sorry and if she doesn't forgive u, then she's not a real friend. just say away from her if she is still mean to you.
2006-11-07 01:33:57 · answer #5 · answered by chris b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ah..You didn't do some thing,nor did they. Only factor mistaken right here used to be your response. You took it individually . When it used to be no longer supposed to be so. They readily didn't desire to head out atm,they desired to just do as they informed you,and also you didn't get it,you careworn them,and made them think uncomfortable. You must have simply gave them a hug,and allow it's,allow them to realize I am right here if you happen to ought to speak so long. If the conduct persevered you then could realize there used to be whatever mistaken and yous ought to speak approximately it.
2016-09-01 08:37:52 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is this friendship worth salvaging??? I mean... Do you see yourself still being friends and working things out or do you see yourself moving on? Its really up to you two... If you can salvage a friendship... I would try to. If it cant be done... Let it go.
2006-11-07 01:23:42 · answer #7 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think cussing her out will only add to the difficulty.
2006-11-07 01:36:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋