Someone i care about alot is on drug like the ones that can kill you and he tryed everything but its not working and it kill me to watch him go down the wrong road i just wanted to know is there anything i can do for him???????? Or at least get him offf!!!!!!!! It would mean alot to me !!!!!!!!!!
2006-11-07 01:21:11 · 4 answers · asked by ManImSadINeedAHug 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Sadly, there is only so much we can do to help our friends. Addiction is a powerful force, and we can't control it. Go to Al-Anon, or some similar group to get support. Ask about the possibility of doing an "intervention." You'll need help with this, but it has worked in the past. Basically, several people who care about the person confront them with proof of their illness and ask them to go into rehab right away. You have to have a plan in place to get them to the program, and plans in place to help with any loose ends they're leaving behind. It takes a lot of work, but it's worth a try. Your friend is lucky to have you, and someday, if he gets off the drugs, he may be able to recognize that. I wish you both the best.
2006-11-07 01:28:23 · answer #1 · answered by Yogini108 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a very close person to me was in the same situation the person was a family member (still is). i tried alot but nothing can change grugs as they are so addicting. if he is strong enough to take this drug he should be strong enough to let go. try talking to him when he is not high on his drugs. it worked with me and now i feel safer and so does he.
2006-11-07 09:28:57 · answer #2 · answered by Aaliyah 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just talk to him...i have the same problem but there really is no hope for my friend because he is to far gone. but if yours aint then you have a chance.
tell him how it makes you feel that you are embarrassed to be seen with someone like that cause you get counter parted as that. tell him how much of an idiot he is making out of himself for doing this. tell him that he thinks he is cool but everyone else around him thinks he is an idiot...
JUST TELL HIM HOW YOU FEEL ABOUT IT!
2006-11-07 10:49:15 · answer #3 · answered by J-Lynn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he really wants to stop then he needs to admit himself into a re-hab or hospital. lots of love and support will be needed by those around him. if worse comes to worse then the only other solution is to turn him in to the police.
2006-11-07 09:27:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋