Lesbian or Bi?

Question

Ok well i've never had a relationship with a guy for more than 3 wks..they all TRIED to use me. Ive never had a girl either. Ive always daydreamed about other girls. I know im not straight, in fact I dont really like guys that much..i find most of them to be unattractive macho cheaters ( no offensive).

But I do picture myself married with kids. I do think my true love is a macho loving man. I love thought of loving a woman as well. The urge for women is stronger.
Am I bi. lesbian or something else? By the way im 14.

Thanks for the answers everybody. Yes I know im young but some people figure out their sexuality from childhood.. im still confused though.

Answer 1

First of all you are very very young and please be cautious using the net for such matters because there's all kind of people going round. Second I think you should wait and decide for yourself what you are, you are just now developing your sexuality, take it easy kiddo

Answer 2

Its very possible to be in a relationship with a woman and have kids too. By the time your older I'm sure marriage with a woman will be legalized or have another name of it. Oh and there are macho Lesbians out there. Your only 14 and you need to wait and experience life a little.. Maybe you just need to experiment with different people. All men are not the same macho, offensive, cheaters.... But you can have your dreams married to a woman... So you need to just figure it out

Answer 3

You sound like me. I am almost 18 though. My birthday is in a few weeks. I have wondered about my sexuality since I was 16. Before that I was 100 percent straight. I do not understand how I could change my sexuality or how I developed feelings for females.

You are bi. Not a lesbian.

I want to marry and have children but not until I am at least 28. I fantasize about men and women. Sexually, in that way. That is how I know I am bi.
Have you had any sexual fantasies along the lines of that?

Answer 4

a million. Are you lesbian or bi? Lesbian. 2. How old were you once you found your orientation? i became round 7 years old, i became experimenting with my suitable buddy. 3. accepted lady body area? this relies upon on the girl. I in basic terms love women human beings.. haha! 4. accepted personality trait? experience of humor, aggressiveness. 5. How old were you once you got here out? 19. 6. How did your popping out go? quite nicely, all i might want to do became smile, I type of felt finished, like i became not hiding. 7. accepted music? It relies upon on the day. on the instantaneous that is the cover of purple & Clover finished by technique of Joan Jett and the Blackhearts. 8. suitable suggestion you have ever received? Be who you're. 9. I wanna meet some youngster lesbian/bi toddlers. Are you a teen/wanna communicate? i'm 19, if that still counts as a teen. particular. :)

Answer 5

I am a lesbian but in think you are bi but are edging towards being a lesbian
you re still young so live your life try going out with a guy see how it goes if it doesnt feel right or it doesnt work try going out with a girl
but really it is choice completly
you can have a baby with a woman just in different ways

Answer 6

At your age, you sound perfectly normal. Don't worry about what you think you'll want in the future. Meet lots of people, the more you meet the more you'll be able to figure out exactly what you're looking for out of a future partner. Give yourself time and space, and most of all, enjoy the journey. You only get to be young once.

Answer 7

Well i would wait on that just wait untill you are of age then see how you feel but first get through school and then college and then you won't have to deal with your parents in this i think you would be better off in this decision.Just being 14 y old you would have to deal with parents and possibly getting in deep trouble with the law so plezz just be very careful in this decision there are crazzy people out there.

Answer 8

What you are is "growing up". Your sexuality is awaking and the process causes you to discover and rediscover your body as it changes

If you have a piece of clay and you start working it and forming it, you won't know what it is until you've finished, and until then it can seem to take on different shapes. You're the clay. Give yourself some time to go through the changes. When you finally settle into a shape you'll know what you are.

Answer 9

Hunny, you are too young to even be worrying with this right now. Enjoy being 14! You have plenty of time to tackle the issue of your sexuality. You will only be this young once in your life. Don't be in a hurry to grow up too quickly.

Answer 10

well i think that u would be a lesbian b/c men don't really turn u on and woman sort of do. u can be a lesbian and still have kids. u can go to a sperm bank and get it injected into u and then u take over the pregnancy from there. i hope that i have helped in some way.

Answer 11

you need counseling. you have had bad relationships, or 'near' relationships, but should not let that poison you against men overall, and don't start to think that a woman is the answer, because there are women who can be just as retarded as dumb acting guys. what you need to do is be careful who you associate with. you may try adjusting whatever your criteria is. if you like the rugged, thugged out type.......well that is just their personality. if you are looking for someone caring, and intelligent who will be attentive........then start looking at the ones who are more academic or active in school functions, or something like that. it isn't who THEY are.......it's who YOU pick.