i tend to find i have some erattic thoughts that my husband is having an affair with every female in the village is this a normal part of manopause do any other women get these thoughts
2006-11-06 23:37:22 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
ONly you should know that answer. How does your husband behave? Is he flirtatious? does he come home late at night saying he worked late? taking regular showers (heheh ..its true )? If he is giving you reasons so be suspicious then you are normal .
If not then its just you being erratic. If you really want to know why don't u spy on him?
2006-11-06 23:40:59 · answer #1 · answered by Rachel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are probably having a hard time dealing with all those emotional feelings that come along with your manopause. It makes women feel like they are past their sell by date and that its all over for them, which triggers the bitter feelings towards younger pritter girls, but not always, and its not a shameful thing. We are all humans at the end of the day and everyone of us is insecure about something or another. Even the younger girls. Just try and focus on what you want out of the rest of your life. IF you ever feel like taking it out on your partner, DONT, try not to anyway, after all we all need someone by our side dont we!!??
It will eventually blow over and you will feel like your old self again soon enough, ask your doc for some medication to make this easier. It must be so hard so dont try and do it alone, it might reallly serioulsy depress you.
Goodluck. x
2006-11-06 23:51:43 · answer #2 · answered by london lady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have no grounds to suspect your husband is having an affair it probably is hormone related. As you approach the menopause you can often feel depressed which leads to a loss of self esteem and confidence. I'm sure your husband isn't looking at all these other women, but if you don't really like yourself much at the moment you are probably wondering why he is with you and imagine all kinds of things. Try and get something to balance your hormones, eat well, treat yourself to some nice clothes, have your hair done and start thinking of yourself as a gorgeous woman that he is lucky enough to be with.
2006-11-06 23:47:45 · answer #3 · answered by feebee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It can be a normal part of the menapause you are feeling a little bewildered at what is happening to your body and mind and not feeling so confident in yourself. A lot of marriages break up during the menapause, not saying yours will as long as you realise that the thoughts you are experiencing are unreasonable and it is just your low self esteem that is making you think these thoughts. Talk to your husband explain how you are feeling tell him you are feeling vunerable right now and need extra tender loving care in a couple of years you will be back to normal and feel contented again. Good luck
2006-11-06 23:49:02 · answer #4 · answered by Kirks Folley 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I don't think its the menopause, but you do sound as they your'e feeling very insecure. If your husband is not behaving in a suspicious manner and there is nothing to indicate there is anything different in his behaviour, then there would be no grounds to suspect he is having affairs. Why not pop along to the Doctor's and explain how your'e feeling, preferably a lady doctor and they check your over.
2006-11-06 23:45:00 · answer #5 · answered by patsy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sleep in a distinctive room. Or convnce him, in case you could to sleep in yet another room. My spouse is at present dealing with menopause and that i think that I treet her lots extra suitable than you point out on your question/fact. Please do no longer generalise, no longer all adult males take care of our better halves badly. we are able to be and in many situations are compassionate. We do have a buddy however, whose husband whinges to us approximately his spouse's warm flushes. i think it somewhat is something own and should no longer be suggested so overtly in front of yet another couple. My spouse and that i flow out many times. We additionally paddle kayaks mutually, we cycle mutually. That ain't treating her like 'poo', as you suggested.
2016-10-21 10:08:42 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you would know for sure if he was hitting every woman in the village. Just keep your eyes open and your mind aware, and if it's indeed happening you'll find out soon enough. Meanwhile, concentrate on your own comfort.
2006-11-06 23:43:16 · answer #7 · answered by matters 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm going through menopause and I don't think for a minute that my man is cheating on me. Either you are paranoid or he is messing around.
2006-11-06 23:40:45 · answer #8 · answered by bookfreak2day 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
menopause kicking in!!!
do u have any prove he's cheating on you? don't rush into things & destroy your marriage
2006-11-06 23:41:18 · answer #9 · answered by KOOL 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋