Gee, I've just ask cause my handsome bestfriend finally says that he loves me. I just fuckingly dont know if he is serious about that or just making fun. Anyway, i know he's not the type, co'z he'd been a gentlemen to me for the past six years.. Help me guys, pleaze! Im really confused...
2006-11-06 23:35:39 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Be careful not to assume his "love" is anything other than friendship. I would simply wait and see how he expresses that love, if he knows you are gay, and if his loving you is something else than friendship, his behavior will change.
Or you could simply sit him down and say, hey man I love you too, you are my best friend, but you know I am gay so I need to ask you what loving me means to you. Like a brother or something else?
He's obviously not threatened by your sexuality, so I think either approach will get you the information you need, but I think I'd just ask what he means. It may be that he doesn't know what he means. Give him some time to figure it out.
2006-11-06 23:48:22 · answer #1 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well, if he loves you, another man, then he's not really straight. He's either making fun or coming out of the closet. You should talk with him-he's the only one who can tell you which it is. You never know, he might even be in the 'grey area' between gay and straight.
Hell, I've always considered myself straight until I saw Mana (Malice Mizer era...sorry, it's a Japanese band). I guess I'm still 100% straight-I read up on Mana soon after and discovered that 'she' is a guy.
Anything's possible...
2006-11-07 08:13:40 · answer #2 · answered by MigukInUJB 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
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2006-11-07 08:46:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lovingsomeone and being in Love with them is two totally different feelings.
My best mate loves me and I know he is not in Love with me.
2006-11-07 13:38:26 · answer #4 · answered by SunGod 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, by definition if you are a man & in love with a man you are not straight.
2006-11-07 20:42:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it has been documented that every male, under the right conditions, is capable of being willing to engage in gay sex.
2006-11-07 10:21:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the strait guy in question happens to be homosexual, the sure it's possible. You left that on wide open!!!
2006-11-07 08:26:06 · answer #7 · answered by Brad 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe you're confusing love with sex...saying you love someone doesn't necessarily mean that you want to have sex with them...If he is a good friend...go ahead ask him what he meant.
2006-11-07 07:42:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
"Fuckingly" is not a word. That should help.
2006-11-07 08:39:18 · answer #9 · answered by J D 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
of course its possible
2006-11-07 08:32:18 · answer #10 · answered by Spawn 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋