Two years ago at my last highschool where I attended for two years from the age of 13-15 I was bullied and harrassed by the people at my school. One of the main ringleaders who was a complete two faced biarch made my life hell and was extremely manipulative and mean. Everyone in my year hated me but she was definately one of the worst. I would go home and cry myself to sleep everynight and didn't ever want to go back. Now after making the decision to leave after realising I had no friends left at that school, I still have people yell abuse at me in town, give me evil looks or diss me really loudly. I used to stand-up for myself at first, but since there was only one of me, and always lots of them it was impossible to win, and teachers always took their side, because lets face it, who believes one person? I considered commiting suicide several times, thinking I was worthless, ugly, stupid and inferior to everyone on this planet. To be continued in next part...
2006-11-06 22:45:03 · 9 answers · asked by Steph :-) 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
After moving to an girls only school, I realised that it was them who had a problem, not me, and the depression and hateful feelings towards myself faded, and although I got hassled on and off a few times, till the start of this year, I still made heaps of friends and started feeling great about life,
The problem now is, this girl who I mentioned in the start commented on my bebo and I'm not sure if shes being nice or trying to get me down. I don't know whether I should respond or ignore her, be assertive or be mean. I don't want her to think shes still hurting me because frankly, going to that school has only made me stronger.
She said "HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA do u remeba gettin lost in te papa in 3rd form lmao i do it was ****** funi"
If it was one of my friends who had said that I wouldn't mind, but since it was her I'm feeling quite suspicious about it. I'm wondering if I should be like "You really should get over it, it was three years ago hun" or "Yeah it was hilarious but..."
2006-11-06 22:45:24 · update #1
...you should get a life, I mean something funnier must have happened to someone since then...I mean I can hardly remember that...is your life really that sad and meaningless"?
I really don't know what to do or say. What would you do?
2006-11-06 22:45:39 · update #2
Ok you can answer now =)
2006-11-06 22:46:31 · update #3
I'm not trying to hold onto it, its them that keep trying to latch themselves onto me again! I didn't think of this till she left that comment on bebo.
2006-11-06 23:29:25 · update #4
Come to think of it, who is the one really behaving weird? Its her! who is being childish? Its her again!! Y bother abt this kind of person, who jus make life difficult for us?? Heck care her totally and if she does ever talk/ or shouted to u again, ignore her totally n walk off n make her felt like an idiot, talking to herself... hahahaaa. Go on, u've made new frens, frens who u can hang out w/, stick to them. even if u hasnt really find one, jus trust urself tat there isnt any problem w/ u. We r God's creation, we r jus who we r, so love urself. Those ppl makin our life unhappy r sent be 'evil' to put tests to our life. Heck care them, don fall to their 'trick', no point ending ur life as u'll let them Win n they'll b laughing merrily inside. Be urself, u be e one keep laghing n tell urself I Won be staying calm, staying happy!! =]
Keep ur COOL! All the Best!! put on tat smile =]
2006-11-06 23:10:44 · answer #1 · answered by y t 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Welll, first of all thanks for the answer. It means a lot when people actually put thought into their answers. And I'm glad you can relate. Shy Nice Guy is a good thing. Girls look for that. Or eventually they will when their douche boyfriends break their hearts. I've always hated the idea of one night stands too. I think it's dumb to just give yourself away without any meaning behind it. So, it's cool that you're a virgin and that you want something meaningful. Believe it or not, there are a lot of girls who feel the same way. You're still fairly young, but a girl will probably come along. And maybe, for all you know, you already know the girl who you'll eventually fall in love with. You never know what will happen and who you will fall for/who will fall for you. But anyways, you sound smart, you have your head on straight and you seem like a nice guy, so I'm sure good things will happen to you. Good luck! :)
2016-05-22 07:04:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not do or say anything. It's not even worth a response. You may have had a very bad attitude problem back then, but if you have found a way to get over it then stop dredging up the past and forget about it. Those other people you mention may also have had attitude problems, and after a while the whole thing gets too ridiculous to handle. Just get away from all that dysfunctional crap and move on. You do not have to respond to every little piece of nonsense that comes at you.
2006-11-06 23:00:55 · answer #3 · answered by Kokopelli 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You could've saved yourself a lot of typing and verbage usage!! You could've summed up the events in 1 paragraph---You've are the victim of what is classified as "MEAN GIRLS"! They're the girls that think they're all that and a bag of salty chips, when in reality they are girls with low-self-esteem that prey on others for their jollies!! These girls by themselves are pathetic----they use others to join in and then you have a group of girls that turn in to mean evil beotches!
Ignore these people ----you'll find these kind of people all through out life---in the work place, in college, in your neighborhood----If you acknowledge these people with responses to their stupidity they've hooked you hook line and sinker----
The best response to them is no response and walk away----
Committing suicide is a cowardly act----and you want to give them more to feast on at your expense---
Get counseling if you need it----AVOID these rude vicious people like they have the plague----it's the plague of being inconsiderate to other people's feelings and thinking they're better than any one else----
2006-11-06 22:56:32 · answer #4 · answered by aunt_beeaa 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would say something like.........
"yeah, how has your life been since then? Mine? Couldn't be better! Thanks for the memory!"
& then leave it at that...don't let her bring you down again...she isnt worth it...sounds like you got good things happening now....just hold your head up & say "I'm better then that"...dont let her get to you...just keep going the way you are...
Good Luck & God Bless You
2006-11-06 23:02:43 · answer #5 · answered by mysticfairy74 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get over it, and get on with your life. Holding onto the hurts of the past will only hurt your future!
2006-11-06 23:17:44 · answer #6 · answered by grandm 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Pay for her College Education
2006-11-06 23:58:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just say, "Hey do I know you?" or "You must be mistaking me for someone who gives a damn!"
2006-11-06 22:51:09 · answer #8 · answered by rebecca_sld 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
pls do well to ignore her
2006-11-06 22:51:07 · answer #9 · answered by abenabox 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋