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i like a guy and i think he likes me too but we dont know eachother . i told all this to our common friend but i think she is jaelous of me because i have heard that she also likes him. that guy and me both are very shy to approach eachother directly

2006-11-06 22:38:28 · 27 answers · asked by just mee 1 in Family & Relationships Other - Family & Relationships

27 answers

YOU DON'T

There is no way to force someone to love you, it either happens or it doesn't.

2006-11-06 22:41:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1 1

For doing these things you dont really need a friend.

Well if you know that boy, there should be a place you both met and I believe you both come face to face atleast twice a day, say hi to him when ever you happen to meet him and have a small pep talk on something you both know like a recent movie, cricket match and then slowly drag him into the real concept ;) ( that you have been cooking in your mind) tell him you look good in this dress, suggest some cool tips like so and so shirt was looking awesome on you. He will definitely return back the complements, and this gives more confidence for both of you to talk about more personal things.

Ask him about his future plans, discuss about your plans, tell him how you remembered him at so and so situation, take his phone number, sms him a few messages, forwards etc.

Take his yahoo, gtalk id and talk to him once in private, u knw things happen very fast if you dont see each other in real, then let him know that you are willing to do something with him *** for fun and tell no A stuff, tease him.

he would definitely understand what your intentions are !!

I hope my plan works for you !!

2006-11-07 08:36:21 · answer #2 · answered by grooovish 3 · 0 0

U cant make someone love u. U can love someone and hope they love u back. Hey 2 shy people aint a good idea. But if u want something go out and get it. As for the jealous pal,well dont tell her much. If u like him go get him before its too late and ur pal gets him. Good luck.

2006-11-07 06:46:45 · answer #3 · answered by sexyangel 1 · 0 0

Dear, As you both are shy to approach each other, i thnk ur love will materialise once u both reahc the other world. first thing make a person in love is to know his likes and dislikes. As he is shy, you get rid of ur shy. It will do wonders. if you r serious, donot use messengers. The best time to meet him is a day start.

2006-11-07 06:58:39 · answer #4 · answered by shivgamy 2 · 0 0

Ah sweetie, the others are right, you cant make someone fall in love with you.

You need to take the plunge and ask him out, if he says no thats fine, at the end of the day you dont want to spend time with some-one who doesn't want to spend time with you, just put it down to experience and don't be dis-heartened.

Good luck

2006-11-07 06:44:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

The easiest thing to do is to make him know that you like him, either expressly or by your actions. There is nothing more with you expressing your feelinsg. It is natural to love someone or even have feelings for someone. However, be sure that it is not infactuation or some other empheral feelings.

2006-11-07 07:35:34 · answer #6 · answered by King of Torts 2 · 0 0

Don't be in such a hurry. Just be yourself for one thing and don't be too forward. Start with small comments like Hi, and how was your weekend or want to go to the football game, or you know start with something that will lead to longer conversations.

2006-11-07 06:43:56 · answer #7 · answered by ♥Sunflower 5 · 0 0

hi if u think he likes u then whats the problem????
talk to him as a friend dont blabber and dont pour ur heart right out tell him that he's handsome....and so on
inform him that u dont have a BF n' wanna have 1
make him feel comfortable with ur presence and im sure he'll b the 1st 1 to tell u that he likes u.
good luck dear

2006-11-07 06:47:57 · answer #8 · answered by lish 1 · 0 0

Praise in public and critize affectinately and personaly,
Extend a warm 'good morning' and so on, everyday.
Ask and understand his interests and accommodate own interests accordingly.
Now you are on the path and the path will lead you to the door.

2006-11-07 06:56:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Just express directly other wise u will face lot of conflict and there is no problem expressing ur thought to him

2006-11-07 08:19:26 · answer #10 · answered by Jithen 1 · 0 0

Go and talk to him directly instead of saying this to your common firend...let him decide after knowing you better!! All the Best :)

2006-11-07 07:07:34 · answer #11 · answered by Harish 3 · 0 0

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