I have a friend whoi love with all my heart more than anyone on this earth but we are always arguing with each other and he does not treat my the same as i treat him i wanna talk to him about this problem but he won't listen to me when i talk to him somtimes he does not wanna know me. i feel that we still have some friendship and its strong we just need to restart of something or work something out because it is killing me inside it hurts badly and it breaks my heart that he sometimes does not even want to know me. I love him alot and he says he loves me but sometimes he treats me like he does not like me but he is also scard of me becasue i am 6 foot and he is 5.5. i knoe this is along one and a hard one but please i love him and i want to get this relationship up and running again becasue i miss the good old times so anyone out there who would have any suggestions would be helpful really wrong or right works of not just please some kind of help.
2006-11-06 22:02:44 · 10 answers · asked by webster 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
One person can't argue by himself. Friends and lovers argue most when they're trying to change each other. If you love this guy with all your heart, accept him as the imperfect and frustrating person he is, and cherish him in spite of his faults. Don't try to change him. And refuse to be pulled in arguments. Let him argue by himself if he wants. You can rise above it if you try. Try to see the petty stuff for what it is: a waste of time to bother with.
2006-11-07 03:32:16 · answer #1 · answered by Sweetchild Danielle 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it has nothing to do with how tall you are. but you know people change and there is nothing anyone can do about that. sometimes with change you will grow apart. if he does not want to sit down and talk to you about this. writing him a letter might be a good idea, tell him how you feel. then let him take it from there. make sure you tell him in this letter that you are leaving it up to him and if he decides not to call or stop by that you are sorry and that you will miss his friendship. and then move on with your life.things never stay the same.
2006-11-06 22:11:59 · answer #2 · answered by here to help 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow this sounded like me and a friend I have until you said 6 feet and 5.5 feet. I was thinking it was me. I will watch the answers closely on this as I hope I can get help too.
Do you think that maybe people can't forgive past hurts. Maybe you might try to find someone to mediate you two. We tried it but she picked her husband and he called me nasty names. So get someone to close to either one. Good luck
2006-11-06 22:12:42 · answer #3 · answered by Tedi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you could desire to take a seat down along with her and function a intense communicate. tell her precisely the variety you sense approximately what she does. tell her which you have observed how she acts and it makes you uncomfortable. She would have a flirty character and he or she somewhat won't comprehend what she's doing. yet once you have already got given her one warning and you made it sparkling as to the variety you sense appropriate to the area, then i might in all danger evaluate shifting on, depending on how lots you like/like her of direction.
2016-10-21 10:05:05 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are talking about a 'gay' partnership, then I can only think that your partner has found someone else, or wishes to get out of the arrangement! Ask him outright! Then you'll know!
2006-11-06 22:09:09 · answer #5 · answered by wheeliebin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe, in his eyes, you've led him on for a long time. Or maybe it's hard for him to become romantically attatched to another girl with you in his life. Just ideas
2006-11-06 22:06:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try doing stuff that he likes (hobbies). something that he will enjoy. Maybe it might make him feel good.Then slowly start talking (good old days). Remind him of why you became friends.
2006-11-06 22:07:07 · answer #7 · answered by Feeling blue 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this may hurt but it will help-find the truest love first from above-read the gospel of John -key in when you get to chapter 3
-it will teach you what you are doing wrong and it will get you-amazing grace that saved a wretch like me- :D
2006-11-06 22:08:01 · answer #8 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 3⤋
No chance lanky one
2006-11-06 22:05:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him when you both are calm & tell him everything.
2006-11-06 22:05:23 · answer #10 · answered by Toki Tahmid 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋