2006-11-06 21:45:42 · 15 answers · asked by sad_gal 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
what ever you make of it. nobody likes change, but thats all it is, and you can do it, hold ur head up and think of it as stepping stones, not road blocks
2006-11-06 21:48:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
A lot of the way your life will be will depend on you. Most all children want their parents together but, when they are so unhappy that it comes to a divorce, it is for the best. The thing you need to do is accept it and not give either one any grief over it. It will only strain your relationship with your parents and you need them and they need you. Hopefully they both will find happiness with someone else and there again, you have to try and be a team player. It is hard for children to see their parents with someone else. Keep your relationship with your parents alive and well and you will have a good life. GOOD LUCK
2006-11-07 10:47:59 · answer #2 · answered by shyone 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A different kind of life. It will be hard but it is up to you how hard. Accept the fact your life has changed and find something good (you may really have to look hard) about the new situation focus only on the positive. Know the divorce is in now way your fault. Life is not fair accept what you can not change and tell yourself IT IS WHAT IT IS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-11-07 06:27:32 · answer #3 · answered by dettie 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You probably will have a better relationship with both ,once they split.
You are probably exposed to a lot of fighting now.
When they divorce ,hopefully it will get better.
You will have two houses to go to and the undivided attention of the parent you`re with.
What ever you do DON`T be a messenger for either parent or take sides.
It is not your job to fix their mess.
Just remember they BOTH love you and YOU were the best thing to happen during their marriage.
2006-11-07 06:09:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well, hopefully your folks have your best interest at stake. It sux when your parents divorce. It is hard to understand. My son thought it was fantastic. No more arguing, 2 holidays...more presents. More access to cash. A second place to hang with friends. The begining may be a little hard to adjust. Once your folks move on the situation will be easier on everyone. The best of luck to you.
2006-11-07 05:51:20 · answer #5 · answered by Tammy G 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
in some ways, it will be sad, naturally, but there may also be a sense of peace. And like all pain and grief, your feelings will soften in time. Just try to care for both of your parents. Understand that this is all about them and not about you. And be kind to yourself along the way. If you need to talk more, see a counselor. It can help you a lot.
2006-11-07 05:50:05 · answer #6 · answered by Isis 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Well it depends on how young are you when they'll decide to end thier relationship,how close your family together,how close are you to your parents.When you're younger and your have a close family ties then you'll be affected deeply imotionally.You'll need some proffesional counsel for this.It depends on many factor.But as far as my knowledge is concerned those were under a broken families are mostly emotionally disturbed.
2006-11-07 06:03:58 · answer #7 · answered by james ian h 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, you will miss one of the parental's love (father or mother). Usually divorce creates a deep sense of inner discontention within you and you may also face social pressure. This will result self inferior complex or weakening of your self-recognition, ego, esteem and personal confidence.
2006-11-07 21:47:38 · answer #8 · answered by AH HA 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It will probably lead to you having problems with commitment as you get older. You should talk to a professional therapist so you can still have a chance of having a loving relationship in your future.
2006-11-07 05:49:50 · answer #9 · answered by Me 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
depend how you deal with the divorce
2006-11-07 05:48:59 · answer #10 · answered by waiting for baby 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋