2006-11-06 21:40:17 · 17 answers · asked by Sapna A 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I've been repeating this time and again but its very important, Whatever you do plz complete your studies and settle down first. Patience is the key. Persuade your parents to consider the partner you've chosen for yourself. just don't be afraid to approch them, love is not a crime. Don't pressurise your parents as they tend to get more irritated from that. talk to them , ask them to meet the boy u've chosen to spend your rest of the life with. don't get disheartened if they say no initially. Tell them you'll not marry this person unless they don't agree for it but also make them realise that you wont/cant marry anyother person. Whatever you do plz don't elope with your partner, this increases friction amongst the family and your parents will always view your partner in the light the-one-who-stole-their-daughter-from-them... i wish you guys best of luck ! hope u get ur Love .
2006-11-06 22:00:25 · answer #1 · answered by whatever 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i'm able to work out 2 circumstances advance right here. interior the 1st one you marry your bf and the hollow between you and your loved ones gets even bigger mutually as the hollow between you and your in rules lessens. in the different, you obey the racist calls for of your parents and then finally end up questioning approximately what would have been the the remainder of your existence. mutually as your resentment in the direction of your parents festers and grows until eventually you at the instant are not something extra suitable than a bitter shell of the guy you was. i can't see there being an elementary fix on your difficulty. yet you're 26 and extra suitable than the right age to make your guy or woman judgements approximately your existence. Your parents are spoiling a lot extra suitable than your love tournament. some understanding elevating is needed. hire some movies - wager who's coming to dinner, Mississippi Burning, Malcolm X, the colour purple. i'm no longer saying that some movies will substitute their attitudes yet they actually would desire to have their racist attitudes thrown of their face.
2016-10-21 10:04:43 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your parents no longer control your life. If you must explain to them about how you feel but don't let what they say change your decision without some serious thought. You love this guy enough to get married? Then you should want to do ANYTHING to be with him. If not....then he's not for you.
2006-11-06 21:44:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I u r commited then I get married to him go to the court and get ur marriage registered tell ur parents later on
2006-11-07 01:42:05 · answer #4 · answered by emily 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on your age. i mean if you are over 20, its your life and your choice but if you are younger, you might want to wait. your parents wont always be against it. just pick your timing and DONT, i repeat DONT run off and get married!! it will ruin EVERYTHING.
you want your parents there.
just think about everything. you might see you want to wait or think that marriage isnt for you right now.
2006-11-06 21:45:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
either wait or get married anyways....
from your name i know you r indian, so i guess you have to wait...if not today tomorrow they'll accept it....
your parents are not accepting bcs there must be a reason....i know tht indian parents are very protective, i mean y shldnt they be? they sacrificed everything for their children, i have seen my indian friends, their parents really do love them alot....
the best thing you can do is wait for the right time....
2006-11-06 21:44:43 · answer #6 · answered by Jendralus 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Parents have best interest of their child at heart so do not rush allow some time.
2006-11-07 02:28:14 · answer #7 · answered by minootoo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That depends how old you are. You gave no reasons why your parents don't want you to marry him. Be more specific.
2006-11-06 21:42:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try to tell ur parents that both of you like each other.If they insist on the decision,grant them to be filfial to ur parents
2006-11-06 21:45:05 · answer #9 · answered by coconut 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
go with parent if you want a long life
2006-11-06 21:41:47 · answer #10 · answered by sk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋