many people repent after the marriage???

Question

Many people repent after the marriage but before the marriage they will be busy in distributing cards inviting friends but suddenly after wards they start repenting

Answer 1

The best part of marriage is having children. Children fill up your life with happiness and we get an aim to live...as long as children are small and they need you and you are busy with them, you don't feel marriage is a mistake.......but later on when children are grown and they don't need you so much.....you start thinking about yourself....and you suddenly realize that you have not left with anything interesting to do now.........and you are looking for some excitement again, but you can't get it because you are already married and have kids.....and in the society in which we want to remain respectful, we have to live as we are.......even our age does not allow us to think freely, .so we kill all our desires and live rest of our life doing adjustment........when our adjustments fight with our desires, we repent...................those who win on adjustment .....keep their marriage, those who win on desires.......go for breaking it and start new life.............but I would prefer to adjust rather than to break....as it will break many other hearts........specially hearts of our children which me being an indain would not like........

Answer 2

When living in the states my girlfriends on the block all got married very young and from what they tell me they seem happy. However, I always thought that after the big day with all the excitement that it brings( the dress, relatives, confusion, gifts, you feel different and special etc.::) I always thought that after wards coming back from the honeymoon you would encounter the boring part of it. As a young girl I always knew that marriage is not always fun and exciting, like when you are seeing someone everything is romance and passion is exploding.
I must say that today I see this generation killing all the different stages of romance, passion etc...... What a pity!!!!!
I met a wonderful husband but I knew how to pick!!! No married men or Casanova type etc. We first decided to live together and then got married. I know him since 86 . I hate imagining what it entails when you need to file for a divorce!!! The money that is wasted on lawyers is something that can be avoided. I see that a lot people even educated, lack of common sense. I always tried to make my life simply and never got involved with relationships that I knew would take me to maddness. A woman knows very well what she wants and a lot of mistakes that we make is because we don't realize that life is not a movie but we must be more practical and not imagine our life like a fairy tale. Whenever, you decide to live together with someone, a friend,, your family, a boyfriend/girfriend , a husband/wife etc.... you need to be understanding ,cooperative, and it is not easy to live together. People think that they can marry, have kids and if they can't afford them someone will help them and this creates for the society disturbed children and all the consequence that it brings!!!!!! MARRIAGE IS A SERIOUS ISSUE!!!!!!! When you are twenty you think and see things differently from a woman that is thirty. Your taste changes and when I look back and remember some of the guys I liked, my taste has changed!!!!!! Lets not be in a hurry to get married and have kids, don't copy what other people do !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! You need to imagine that the person you are marring can be stuck may-be on a wheel chair due to an accident????? Would you still love him?????????
You can get married at thirty , forty and have kids and be happy.
Enjoy your youth, because it will not come back and I would have never given up my freedom when I was a young girl!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Good Luck to everyone and have a good Life!!!!!!!

Answer 3

Before marriage male / female would frame a picture regarding marriage, that it should be in this type only, if their expectations diveret from the practical life they are very much distressed. Formerly it would be very enthusiastic but after a short span they try to become rude, and they get ego feeling that the other person is not listening what I say. This brings roots for the clashes between each other. This is the result they find faults in each other.

Answer 4

the number of people who repent after marriage is 3 out of 10 the rest pretend

Answer 5

Marriage is nothing but compromise (samjotha). Your life partner is also a human being. Nobody is always right in this world. You have to adjust with him/her then only you can lead a beautiful life. Otherwise you have to repent for getting married.

Answer 6

That is normal for people to repent when his/her expectation to one another failed. That is why before getting into marriage every one should have to think it a thousand times before committing him/herself in to vow. People who got hurriedly got into marriage were complaining for what had they done unprepared. Now comes a times where no more turning point 360 degrees.
Marriage is not similar to a trial and error formula for couples whose aim is sex adventurism rather than a responsibility.

Answer 7

certainly all ppl repent after marriage thats a fact and the percentage of ppl who repent is not less than 85%, and as marriage is a stigma it begets responsibility and rest of things which take the freedom out of a mans life

Answer 8

Marriage is coffin at home but you are not dead yet. Repent and turn to God. Pretend or regret or just should grow up before make commitment.

Answer 9

getting married is important rather very imp people I think just put a facade of repentence thats all u need a devouted companion for all the travails in your life and marriage provides u that

Answer 10

I am afraid too many people go into a marriage with out really knowing the person they are marrying.