Hon! you are too uptight at the moment to think rationally, cool out first! Then phone or visit your Friend and try and make it up with her! Things are said and done in the heat of the moment but are regretted in leisure. Don't start out with 'You said this and you said that!' Because it wont go down well! Total full apologies on both sides are needed, and a sense of consoling each other is needed! If you need help, then show your friend this reply from me, it will show her you wish to make amends, and that you still feel for her as a friend! Don't worry, and have a good day!
2006-11-06 21:40:36
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answered by wheeliebin 6
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It sounds like you slapped a girl friend who had betrayed you? And now its just bad feelings all around. Well...you could just try to avoid them, and ignore them- but I doubt that will make you feel better. What you need to do is calm down and find closure. You'll do this either by "forget and forgive", but if youre not the "forgiving" soul, then you might try to be the "understanding" soul which means you need to talk to the girl friend who betrayed you and find out why she did what she did. If she betrayed you for no other reason than to be mean, well...then you needn't feel bad when you tell her that the friendship between the two of you are over, and you will treat her civilly if you run into her, but otherwise, you will avoid and ignore her. But at least you'll feel good about it. And if it turns out the whole thing was just a misunderstanding, then maybe both of you need to apologize to each other for the slapping. And you'll have done it all calmly and coolly, and not like a pre-pubescent teenager who can't control his testosterones. And if you just want to hate your enemies, consider this saying: keep close friends, but keep your enemies closer.
2006-11-07 05:39:15
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answered by CloudRider9 2
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well it sounds like you slapped her first, maybe because she provoked you, nonetheless you started and got beat leave it at that, because what you do next can get beyond your control. It seems it started out to be a fight, the only 6 people in class just happened to be 3 on 3. if you tell more friends and they tell more friends it will get bigger 10 on 10 maybe and what happens to the person who loses? will she be asking this same question?
although it seems like you all are young you need to realize fighting doesn't accomplish much but it can have serious consequences
2006-11-07 05:53:41
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answered by calito 2
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Forget about it...n go give them all hugs tomorow. Take all 6 of them out n make them your friends.
Life is way too small to be worrying about enemies and friends....forget about it....n make friends with all of them...that way everyones happy!
if u do understand hindi....lol....kabhi kabhi gandhigiri karne ka time hai! n this is da time for ghandigiri! :D
2006-11-07 05:44:22
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answered by rohini 1
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you are in commotion, stop fighting, it does no good to you. you are still kids and fighting occurs now and then, it's part of growing up: until you realize that to be good pupils, you have to have peace with your classmates.... ok?
2006-11-07 05:37:25
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answered by dodadz 4
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i really dont understand this question....
stay away from them if you dont like them. dont start stuff or even finish things, you are just acting immature like them, just them be stupid and dont bother with them.
2006-11-07 05:29:53
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answered by Anonymous
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go to your teacher
2006-11-07 05:30:33
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answered by vai 2
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