And they are driving you up to the wall with their negative remarks and criticisim?
How do you handle them and do you let them know about their flaws? And they often see things in a bad light, for example, if you have a different opinion from them they think that you have a problem? Tell me about it. Thanks~!
2006-11-06 21:14:29 · 4 answers · asked by galgal 4 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
i have a very pesamistic friend, she holds onto things forever and you know, all that jazz, but you have to be straight ford with them because they get very paranoid. if you tell them the truth and then comfort them afterwards it'll be alright
2006-11-06 21:20:42 · answer #1 · answered by Carole Bennett 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My mom is that way...I fought w/ her for YEARS, and now I realize she just isn't going to change...she criticizes pretty much everything I do and it used to bother me alot, but now I don't really care what she thinks...I've made a great life for myself, I'm happy with my choices and thats all that matters! She can be negative all she wants, but I'm not going to let it get me down anymore!
2006-11-07 05:25:02 · answer #2 · answered by Renee B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can you first try where they are- ? If not, we all have "stuff" and we should learn from one another- If bad is too bad to/for you, you have to let it go....
2006-11-07 06:03:00 · answer #3 · answered by billbowlerski 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate to be criticised!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
But I like to criticise very much.
2006-11-07 06:03:13 · answer #4 · answered by deleted 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋