Gay, bi, or straight?

Question

Gay, bi, or straight?


liek ive tired to test myself withit liek look at gay stuff, but i dont get a erection but then i look at good looking women and i get a erection. I still wonder thgouh even after this, liek i say what if to myself. Sometimes i feel curious to be like what woudl it would be like with a man and i dont feel liek a connection. I sometimes feel straight then ohers im not sure if im bi or gay or just curious. It driving me nuts, like i thnk abouti t all day even in bed. I can haveimages of men and gay porn or female porn and the female porn will instanly give a erection. The male will not as liek i dont connect with them but i still thnik abotu this stuff . I never felt liek this when i was younger, and sex with a man doesnt turn me on nor off, its just there except for sometimes it does. SEx with women hasnt turned me off. I am so confused and want to know if this is a phase becaue im so confused right now. Please help.

i am 16 yrs old and i really want to know what is going on with me

Answer 1

At 16 years old your hormones are in overdrive. I don't think you are gay or bi since men don't seem to turn you on like women. You are just curious of sex in general. Do you have any gay friends or aquaintences? If so that could be adding to your curiousity simply in wondering why they do what they do. If you feel like you would like to have sex with another boy than by all means you should give it a try (use a condom of course). There's nothing wrong with experimenting to figure out what you like and don't like. Just remember to be true to yourself. Don't try anything because of peer presure. I think you just need to experience life. You're young and curious and that's perfectly ok. Just be safe in whatever ventures you explore. Good luck.

Answer 2

I think you are going through is what most males and females go through in their adolescence years; trying to find a sexual identity. At this stage in your life I don't think it really matters, and I don't think you have to identify with any particular sexual preference. Some people don't identify with a particular sexuality until their mid to late 20's and sometimes even later. Don't stress about it, just go with the flow and see where it leads you. You might have experiences with both males and females several times and still not know who you are. Having an experience with a person of the same sex does not make you gay or bi. Most people experiment around your age.

Answer 3

If only woman turns u on, its Confirmed that u r NOT gay! no need to experiment ur preference w/ any gender rite now and NO need for u to think of anymore sex scene to know which turn u on..... Think more of ur studies and let watever images or confusion be gone. Just let things come by naturally as u mature. So, back to ur studies and beck up ur grammer pls!!!

Answer 4

Go out side take all your clothes off and run around naked for three hours or until the cops get you then when your in the pen for doing that it wont matter anymore.

Answer 5

You're just curious. I suggest you explore so that you'll discover your sexual orientation. Because no one but you can answer this for yourself. Have fun exploring, and g'luck!

Answer 6

I think you're straight and curious and an attrocious speller.

Answer 7

I think you are confused,

Answer 8

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