My husband and I lost our baby girl early this yr on the 6th of February and we've been 2 councellings and got to accept this situation. Now we are happily in love and agrred to try to have another child and we are very sure of our facts. I am now working and he also is working but some of our family and friends would tell us we shouldn't have one now. But I mean we really want to try. Do you feel the same way?
2006-11-06 21:09:42 · 8 answers · asked by keatlaretse y 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Hmm... My mother had a miscarriage the birth before me... he was going to be born on my birthday, or otherway around however that works. So I was conceived 3 months after his death, and then born exactly a year later. I think if you are really over it, sincerely, true-to-God over it, then yes... you should have you're next son/daughter/twins. But if you have any doubt in your mind, you should think about it more.
My personal opinion. I hope you make the right decision.
God Bless,
Ezekiel
2006-11-06 21:17:09 · answer #1 · answered by Ezekiel 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Do you feel the same way? who cares how we fell
first I am very sorry for your lost,
2- you two sound like mature people you get help when you needed you did not stay in your sorow instead you seek help
in my book that make you two a wonderful human being
so if you feel that you are ready for a child go for it
don't let others opinion stop you, continue with your counsoling
and take care
Good luck & God Bless
2006-11-06 21:44:05 · answer #2 · answered by waiting for baby 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Unless there is a physical problem, with pregnancy or whatever, I can see no reason to accept other people's `verdict' about what you and your husband essentially feel you need!
Good luck, mummy and daddy!
2006-11-06 21:35:34 · answer #3 · answered by sigoviafan 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think if you really want to try for one, then it's the right time indeed. Even family members should not interfere with these things.
2006-11-06 21:13:23 · answer #4 · answered by rinah 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No I do not feel the same way
2006-11-06 21:53:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
your family and friends are anxious for you to have one. but do you want to have one? if you are not ready to have one then you will need to tell your nosey friends and family to butt out of your sex life. you will be ready when you will be ready. besides you don't owe them anything. tell them to but out of your sex life.
2006-11-07 01:08:28 · answer #6 · answered by cfalways 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my deepest condolences for your loss, and i am with you, i feel the same way as u and your husband.
God bless
2006-11-06 21:25:16 · answer #7 · answered by Kalooka 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
i agree...go ahead if its wht u want...theres nothing wrong
2006-11-06 21:16:54 · answer #8 · answered by scarlettoh483 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋