2006-11-06 20:54:12 · 20 answers · asked by kumariyokakumar k 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
See,all depends upon.Up to the time,it is not known by your authorised companion,and you keep on enjoying the moments ,there is nothing unfair about this.
To make this unfair a fair ones ,as I have said,one must do something or give effort as he does while consuming cooked food and not taking raw like animals and birds
What so ever and so long as there is no hatred,fear and a feeling of shy,nothing is unfair.You can deside now easily ,I think..
2006-11-08 04:55:00 · answer #1 · answered by subrata 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Extra marrital relationship is never fair. the thing is u have been cheating ur wife and also ur children. when they believe in u so much and having this kind of thing done by you, u are just breaking their promise which u have made to them.
it may be fair to the third party, but is never fair to the second party at all.
2006-11-06 21:51:23 · answer #2 · answered by sad_gal 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definetely it is not good. After the initial rosy days finally the one who is more sentimental in this situation will always be hurt more. Life will never be the same again. People get into extra marital relationships when they are not happy with their partners or feel they still need more. But in the end whatever peace of mind that is there also will vanish leaving behind a trail of sad story.
Always it is good to go by the society rules to face your surroundings more confidantly. Such type of relationships will only ruin your life rather than bringing happiness.
2006-11-06 21:03:01 · answer #3 · answered by Saheli 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One of the more negative connotations of the use of "affair" is as a euphemism for a situation where two people are involved in an illicit sexual, romantic and/or passionate attachment, usually for a limited duration. The euphemism is also applied to marital infidelity where one partner has an outside relationship: a liaison. It is sometimes accompanied by scandal.
When used in this context, "affair" usually implies sexual impropriety, but that is not necessarily the case. (For example, in the classic film An Affair to Remember, the love affair in question is generally considered acceptable from a moral standpoint.)
2006-11-06 20:56:31 · answer #4 · answered by A R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it's not fair to anyone. So many lives are affected by the unfaithfulness of one persons. Stop and think does one person have the right to affect others lives for their own selfish behavior. The spouse ,children, friends and family are all affected in a negitave way.
2006-11-06 22:41:38 · answer #5 · answered by dettie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, having an extra-marital affair or relationship is NOT fair. How can the men actually commit to affairs and expect their partners or spouse to stay faithful and wait for them to come home everyday? That's so silly. If a woman finds out his man is cheating on him, I would suggest the lady sign for a divorce papers immediately. Don't be so stupid enough to wait for your man to come home hugging or kissing you, while his heart & body is already given away to his mistress.
2006-11-06 21:03:23 · answer #6 · answered by PoshBerries 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends upon the society. In Indian context not considered as acceptable practice. But how many follow. It is like all ths smokers are aware that cigarette is injurious to health. All politicians know that the extra income that they get should go to the people. This is moral corruption.
2006-11-06 21:02:05 · answer #7 · answered by SGraja 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whatever you want someone to do to you, do likewise to them. In my opinion, if i would feel terribly hurt at being cheated, i wouldnt do it to another. So in a nut shell, extra marital relationship is not fair, mainly to the one who would be at the receiving end of the hurt
2006-11-06 20:58:46 · answer #8 · answered by girlfunny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NEVER.
In married life you both need to focus on your life. All your concentration is used to make your life better so that you feel the bliss of life.
Whatever recreation you need is fine arts, whenever you find time .
Never go to find pleasure outside your own family. This will do slow poisoning for your life and soul both.
2006-11-06 21:11:22 · answer #9 · answered by neela m 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you can enjoy without affecting each others personal feelings & getting relax from it ,it is workable.If you canot afford ,then do'nt do it.
Exchanging ths couple can also work . it all depends on personal understanding.
if just to follow the bindings if you are under stress ,you will not even be able to fulfill your prime duties as you will not in relax.
So within control, even all bad habits have good features.
2006-11-06 22:31:49 · answer #10 · answered by sk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋