but how can i tell him that i doubt his love for me?

Question

he already gave the ring to me and actually i was the one who chose it. before we bought the ring, i was in the better mood, but after that i realized that having an engagement ring means that i'm tied to him. Another thing is he's stating to take advantage of me. And the most important thing i'm afraid of is that, my parnts are not into him, i'm afraid if they know we have ring. Becoz i told them already that we broke up.

Answer 1

The situation you're in is not where you belong!
Give the ring back and tell him you're not ready for this and you're a little worried about the speed things have happened.
If he's seriously into being with you, he'll take a step back and give you some space to think about it all.
Marriage is a religious ceremony (and I hate all that cr£p) invented very recently, you're never tied emotionally or physically to anyone, so don't think you're owned if you get a ring. You must always be your own person and don't change the habits of a lifetime to please someone who maybe temporary!

Answer 2

I guess, u'r not prepared to tie down yet. So u gto settle ur relationship properly 1st. Ask urself u still love him? Can u leave happily w/o him? If u'r back together i think ur parent should b knowing, secondly u gave me the sense that something unpleassant do happened b4 therefore u r still puzzled abou the relation with him. Dont get too anxious, let time proved everything, take it easy & dont stress urself too much ok. If u 2 really have fate to b 2gther, nobody can separate at all.

Answer 3

Sounds as if your cold feet have gotten you into hot water. It seems as though you have purposely stacked the odds against yourself here. Your best bet is to just come clean, with everyone. Be honest with your folks and your feelings and also with him as well. If he truly loves you he will be understanding and try to work it out with you. Honesty is the only thing that can save this relationship, you need to decide if it is worth enough to you to try and save it though. If so you gotta get the dirt off of your chest and tell everyone the truth.
-NmD!