am I a bisex?

Question

i felt that i started liking my female bestfriend. i started getting pretty jealous and a littlle protective. she didn't had too much friend, so i'm very close to her.
is it just because i feel pity for her that i stayed with her no matter how she makes me angry or is it because I love her?

i dont think i'm a lesbian, though, I still prefer hot buff tall skinny white sharp eyed Asiatic guys.. ^^ anyone out there..? ^^ hahaha..

Answer 1

Love......So many different ways of showing it. I love my children, I love my dad, I love my friends, I love my cat. Unless you have had sexual thoughts or feel attracted to her in a sexual manner.....Then you probably aren't Bi. Good luck & God bless.

Answer 2

If you were a lesbian you wouldn't be saying > "I still prefer hot buff tall skinny white sharp eyed Asiatic guys.. ^^ anyone out there..? ^^ ".

If you're very close with your best mate and sometimes you prefer spending time with her rather than going out with a guy, it could mean lots of stuff. It could mean that you like her company a lot, it could also mean that you're comfortable in her presense so you start seeing her more as a partner than a friend. If you go out, a guy starts talking to her and you start feeling jealous, maybe it's because you don't want to lose her friendship as you might start thinking that she will forget about you when she starts dating guys. Or it could mean that you really like her. Being bisexual isn't a sin but it's better to be 100% sure of what you're feeling before you make facts.

Tip > Play or invent a game were you play truth or dare....play the dare part were you have to kiss her or she kisses you....if you feel a little spark then you know you've got a thing for her ;>

Answer 3

I have been in the same dilemma as you. Two years ago I wondered about my sexuality so I did not accept the fact that I was bi. For two years I was doing that and was fighting my feelings for other girls. Just a month ago, I have accepted my feelings. You need to accept yours.

One thing to keep in mind: DO NOT GO AFTER THE GIRL UNLESS SHE IS BI OR A LESBIAN.
If she is straight, you might scare her off.
Maybe you do love her in a romantic way or it could be because you love her in a sisterly fashion. Either way you want to protect her and you sound like a good friend. I wish I had a female friend like you.

Answer 4

Maybe. You're going to have to figure out yourself whether or not your feelings for this girl are romantic or not. You could be bisexual and just prefer men, or you might be straight and are just protective of your friend.

When you figure out how you truly feel about your friend then you will probably have a better idea.

Answer 5

I personally don't think your'e bi. I am really protective to my best friend and I love her to bits!. She's quite vunerable, but she's been through good times and bad, the same as me and we just care alot about each other. Enjoy your friendship!

Answer 6

first off there isnt such thing as a bi sexual heres just straigh, gay and ether ent made up there mind or are straight and like to experiment

and to do with your frind it could be just because u r close to her dont worry about it and even if u were a dike it dnt matter theres plenty out there for u

Answer 7

Unless you were having sexual thoughts about your friend, I'd say no. Seems you just love her as a very good friend...like a sister would.

Answer 8

"still prefer hot buff tall skinny white sharp eyed Asiatic guy"

Hmm you daft racist.......

Answer 9

Not really.. Unless you're having sexual intercourse with your friend... Maybe it a sign of you love and care on your friendship...

Answer 10

I don't believe you are bisexual. I guess you and your friend are fond of yourself. It happens, you become bisexual or a lesbian when the urges to have sex with her comes.