Neither of them know about the other one! What can i do to get out of this mess? Hellllllllllllllllllllllp!
2006-11-06 20:07:16 · 54 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You absolute fanny. You had better step up whether these girls trapped you or not. That's 5 lives including your own you have on your hands. How will you play it? Both girls will need to be supported (including financially when they can't, or won't work), they will both need homes. I take it both girls want to continue the pregnancies and babies were the farthest thing from your mind when you were getting your Nat King. Too late to tell you to put a bag on it regardless if she tells you she is "on the pill". I think you need more help than people can give you on YA. You need to tell each girl about the other and pronto. I don't feel sorry for you at all and it looks like the state (us) are going to be looking after your girlfriends and your babies for you. Do the world a favour and keep your dick in your pants. The very fact you are on here asking peoples advice speaks volumes, you are not mature enough to face up to your own doings.
2006-11-06 20:58:37 · answer #1 · answered by rondavous 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why has every one blamed this guy? It takes two to tango!!
Why is it always the feller who has to wonder what can he do, if the females want to 'put it about' why shouldn't the blame be half their fault? Dont they know about the pill, how did they let it happen, or maybe a better question should be why????
If they (all partners) cant afford to keep the children they should be up for adoption.
The Child support agencies are a complete waste of time and money, Fathers go 'missing' all the time.
If I was this guy I would emigrate until things had been forgotten, the matter of these two girls not knowing about each other is not very important at all, how does this guy know he was the cause of these problems?
2006-11-06 20:34:24 · answer #2 · answered by budding author 7 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Tell them both you have a history of genetic abnormalities in your family. Tell them they must get rid of the babies or they will be born circus freaks. Then you should relocate and practise safe s s e x
I know this sounds cruel but the alternative is paying child support for 18 years all for some silly mistakes. Look after number 1 - after all you are a man.
2006-11-06 20:35:07 · answer #3 · answered by Sam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing, there is nothing u can do to get out of the mess, u just have to live up to ur responsibilities as a dad to be and then a dad later when d babies arrive, do a dna test to be sure d children are actually urs and if they are make sure ur in their lives as much as u can or else u will regret it later and then end up on trisha show begging ur kids to forgive u.
u have made a mistake but it does not mean u can't learn from it , by 1st trying to make the most of it, look on d bright side, ur having 2 children soon, babies are a blessing, get a job and support ur baby mama's, good luck
2006-11-06 20:55:25 · answer #4 · answered by gal-next-dr 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get out of the mess ??? !!! You caused it ... now, clean it up !!!
I hope the girls parents sue you (or the girls do) and you have to pay child-support for the babies.. Why should the tax-payer be on the hook for your "good" time ? The best thing you can now, do is take on a few jobs and start saving some $ because the babies will need it.
2006-11-06 20:38:43 · answer #5 · answered by guraqt2me 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First thing, don't run a mile, it's not a game... The kids belong to you as much as to the mothers. Choose one of the mothers and strengthen your relationship with her, that way you won't have both of your little children growing up miserable with no male guidance in this difficult world we live in. Be a good dad, you'll be old one day and these children will either help you or hate you. Which will you deserve?
2006-11-06 20:43:15 · answer #6 · answered by CT 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cant get out of this so called mess. You just have to face up to the situation and support the two girls in anyway you can. If you havent got a job then go find one you are responsible for 2 children for the rest of their lives whether you like it or not. Next time spend your money wisely and buy some condoms.
2006-11-06 20:10:34 · answer #7 · answered by spensmum 4 · 4⤊ 1⤋
well all i can say is u were responsible enough to lie on ur back so u have to take responsibility for the consequences of your actions. Mainly not using a condom.
You are going have to sit both girls down and tell them the situation. Be a man and be there for them as much as you can, i mean all 3 of u have a choice to make, so discussing your options is the best thing to do.
if u all decide to bring these wee ones into the world.
u have to be there as much as u can an be involved as much as u can.
it takes anyone to be a father but someone special tobe a daddy
good luck
2006-11-06 20:24:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Its possible the DHSS will be after you shortly, I hope you have a good job. As for getting out of this mess SORRY but you should have used protection, there's no excuse in this day and age for anyone getting pregnant. Own up and face the music, and in future keep your flaming pants on.
2006-11-06 21:04:34 · answer #9 · answered by Roxy. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this is true then you are in a position where you will have to go along with what the girls want. If they choose to have the babies and it is proven that you are the father, then you will have to help support them. If they choose to abort them, you will then know that two of your potential children have been got rid of - not a nice thought is it? Or maybe you don't care?
I have little patience with young men like you and thank God i am not your mother.
2006-11-06 21:03:14 · answer #10 · answered by Caroline 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋