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How can I make my personality perfect according to my relatives and friends.

2006-11-06 20:03:09 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science Psychology

15 answers

Lear how to say NO to them, and to your personal non-relevant so called "interests".

2006-11-06 20:08:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

If I were you, I would make a commitment with myself. First, I would never blame other people if I got bad score in school. Second, If "first" didn't work, I would play games I liked till I had enough, then I would study all over again. Third, if nothing worked, in case, I would let it happen and do what I liked and then maybe I would see a psychologist hehe...I used to be like that too, so no heart's feeling alright, dost!
Oya, one more thing, if you have a personality crisis, I think it's the end of everything because you have to be proud whatever you are, and if your realtives or maybe your friends underestimate you, I believe they're not good people (in case if you're absolutely annoying person, I think you should change your attitude), but if, after you did everything for them, but nothing changes, I think they're no good but...

2006-11-06 20:26:44 · answer #2 · answered by girl nextdoor 1 · 0 0

I'll ask you one simple question...do you live for you or your friends and relatives?? First change this attitude then everything will automatically follow...if you try to do things for others only then does your mind refuse to concentrate on studies and will you waste your time more....draft a timetable on things to be done for a day and give time to both studies and play....this will certainly work!! All the Best :)

2006-11-06 20:32:31 · answer #3 · answered by Harish 3 · 0 0

huh? According to them? You mean they are telling you to do it or they are the things taking up your time?

Don't make any complicated plans, it probably won't work.
Just be abrupt. If you come on Yahoo! Answers and you know you shouldn't be, or you've been on too long..don't sit mulling over the idea.
Just go and switch it off at the wall or something. Done, quick.
Now you need to go do whatever is more important.

I found that was the only way for me to get off my ***. If I can't be bothered or amn't motivated to do something nothing magical is going to come along and make it easier or more fun..
I just say right i'm either doing this or i'm not. Sure sometimes I just think f*** it and don't do whatever it is, but a lot of the time I just go and do what needs to be done. Just force yourself.

2006-11-06 20:23:06 · answer #4 · answered by Fluffy 4 · 0 0

1st of all, no body can teach u this except u,
now, u shud try few things 2 kee FOCUSED
make a time table and try ur best 2 follow it.at the end of the day give urself marks 4 the time table(1 mark 4 every entry in table)
if u really wanna this to work, then learn 2 resist the temptations. remember, this wud take some time, so b patient and give it ur best shot. Good Luck!!!!

2006-11-06 20:19:25 · answer #5 · answered by marauder 1 · 0 0

First U have to concentrate on ur study by creating taking interest
in your study Enjoy ur study because without it u can not sharpes your mind & not live ur life as a great person
good bye
thanku

2006-11-06 20:22:07 · answer #6 · answered by Er.Manu 1 · 0 0

if u are online too much then u cant concentrate on ur study..try 'time management' sites...that might help you....dont do anything for relatives and friends ..do things for YOU....im sure u know that if u will concentrate on your studies..u will have brighter future ahead of you......so yeah..when u are tempted to succumb to instant gratification of time wasting activities...think of the future...

2006-11-06 21:37:42 · answer #7 · answered by ♦cat 6 · 0 0

You already know you are wasting time. This is a good starting point for improvement.Allocate a fixed time for study everyday.Dont skip it.This regimen will help you.I think it is discipline that helps.Fixed time.Fixed duration.

2006-11-06 22:42:21 · answer #8 · answered by anuradha g 1 · 0 0

1)plan your self,fix sufficient time for study purpose.
2)find out your high energy time ,which is nothing but your free time including of mental and physical .this may be in morning or evening,night
3)utilise it fully
4) take vegetarian food,avoid high stuff food
5)drink one or three cup of coffee during your studies
hope this will bring concentration in your studies

2006-11-06 20:15:54 · answer #9 · answered by ram_gan28 2 · 0 0

try to make timetable for ur day and go according to it or alternative try to study when there is no one at home. or try study in school as much as u can so u don't need to study at home.

2006-11-06 20:12:31 · answer #10 · answered by stranger 4 · 0 0

if u know that ur WASTING ur time on other things then u shud try following a time table and devote maximum time for study

2006-11-06 20:06:54 · answer #11 · answered by sonali 2 · 0 0

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