ok well i asked this before and i thnsk u for helping me out people, My question is that I get really horny from women but when i see a man nothing happens, like i dont get a erection but im not like urterly disgusted, i am but not that much. Could this mean that i am gay or bi or straight. I am abotu 16 yrs of age. I figured from all the advice before that it will pass and that its just curiousty which i beleive is true but im not completely sure. I dont want to be gay, i like girls but I dont know what to do, I fele some men are good looking, but i dont want to get anymore than that.
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I forgot to mention, liek ive tired to test myself withit liek look at gay stuff, but i dont get a erection butthen i look at good looking women and i get a erection. I still wonder thgouh even after this, liek i say what if to myself. Does this mean anything. I appreciate all the help. Also, do u figure that this is a stage and thatit will eventually go away.
2006-11-06 19:55:05 · 11 answers · asked by max b 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Sounds like your a curious person, tolerant of what you don't really understand, and you aren't homophobic. I would hazard a guess that one day you'll end up married, maybe with children. And throughout you're life you may have gay or bisexual male friends who you don't chastise just because of who they are, which would be very good of you. But then again, who knows what the future holds. One thing I do know is that your curiosity will subside in time. It is very mature to "try" something in a safe environment (looking at "gay" stuff) where no harm can come to you.
2006-11-06 20:04:52 · answer #1 · answered by ginnsu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I presume which you're a male and while you're then i will make it easier to realize that i've got had the comparable cursed urges all my existence. I want ladies, yet there are some adult men that basically turn me on. no longer many, recommendations you, yet they're there. the only situation is, while i'm surrounded via straights my gay urges look to use up. it relatively is basically while i'm in a gay environment that I look to get attractive around specific adult men. I got here to the top that its the ambience as a lot because of the fact the guy that flips my change. So each and every now and then I ought to make a pilgrimage into ny or i bypass nuts. it relatively is been years because of the fact i've got made the trek and on the 2nd, i'm certifiable.
2016-10-15 11:36:14 · answer #2 · answered by gartman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What the hay!? Definitely not gay! I mean even girls may find other girls attractive and looks good, but it doesn't mean they're lesbian! It is like you look at a magazine and think that guy looks good, but I reckon you don't want to see him nude or something! You're 16 and I suggest you to get a girlfriend, or have more friends that are the opposite sex, you'll find your confidence. Sometimes always hanging out with guys do give you the feeling of being gay. Don't think too much.
2006-11-06 20:02:07 · answer #3 · answered by Tye 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing wrong if you find your attracted to other guys. It is just society's views. If not then that makes it that much easier for you. It is hard to live the gay lifestyle sometimes. I don't think any of us would choose to be gay if we didn't have to. Relax your young and if you don't get turned on my looking at men you probably wont by now.
2006-11-06 20:00:31 · answer #4 · answered by Fireman T 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's perfectly natural for people to question sexual orientation, and it's nothing to be ashamed of. If you are not interested in men physically, if they don't turn you on, odds are you aren't gay or bisexual. Just because you aren't disgusted by seeing other naked men or because you appreciate beauty in them doesn't make you less straight. I will stare at a beautiful woman and admire her, but that doesn't make me a lesbian. As you grow, your feelings and attitudes might change, so who knows how you'll end up? I wouldn't worry about it; you are who you are, and you don't have to label yourself.
2006-11-06 20:00:46 · answer #5 · answered by Come on in, the water's lovely 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have a sexual desire for men that makes you gay or bi. If you have the urge to be intimate with the guys you think look good then you're gay or bi. I think some girls are good looking but they don't turn me on sexually and i've never thought about sex with them.
2006-11-06 21:59:07 · answer #6 · answered by What'd You Say? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is possible to find males visually appealing without wanting to have sexual/romantic liasons with them.
Do you think/daydream about guys? This is an indicator as to whether you could be leaning towards being bicurious at least.
Human sexuality does have its phases, especially with some people having bicurious phases, or even changes in who they find attractive (i.e. developing a new attraction towards ethnic or plump females for example).
In your text, you say "I don't want to be gay,". Why is this? You need to look at your reasons behind this statement. Tackling the negative beliefs behind this statement isn't going to make you gay.
2006-11-06 20:04:38 · answer #7 · answered by nemesis 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u don't get an erection when u see a sexy man then u are not gay. a lot of guys will say another guy is good looking and they r not gay.
2006-11-07 02:09:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it sounds like you, at this point are gay, or have gay tendancies! go with you HEART... what feels right with you is (right) with you. DONT fight what you feel. a friend.And if you are gay so be it... some people will not fight your feelings and many will. That is something you have to learn to deal with. a friend.......
2006-11-06 20:06:04 · answer #9 · answered by GUNSMITH 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not gay. you can find men visually appealing without wanting to have sexual relations with them.
2006-11-06 19:56:29 · answer #10 · answered by Matthew K 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋