I wanna be with another woman, but how do I know I won't freak out, and how do u find one if u just came out of the closet? and what will my husband say?
2006-11-06 19:41:03 · 5 answers · asked by ashley b 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I had this problem myself a while back. There's no guarentee that you won't "freak out". I doubt you will though. The best thing to do is to try it with someone you know and let her know that it's your first time. Unlike men, women understand the emotions that we go through so if you do freak, I'm sure she will understand and help you through it.
As for your husband, I don't know him well enough to know what he'd say. Many men are all for letting their woman be with another woman. Why do you think there is so much girl on girl porn out there? Men like that. But not all men. You need to be honest with him. Find out what his reaction is. Maybe the first time you get with a woman let him watch if that's a possibility. But if he's totally against you satisfying your curiousity (he may feel that you would be cheating on him) you will have to figure out which is more important to you: Trying something you may or may not like or keeping your marriage.
But let me just say this. Be careful what you wish for. I did finally get my chance with my girlfriend and found it was all I expected and more. Now I find myself wondering if I should be with another woman full time or try to make this marriage work. I found out I enjoy sex with women more than men. But I do love my man. It may not be like that for you and you'll never know for sure unless you try. Just be prepared for all the possible outcomes.
Good luck to you. I hope this helps some. :-)
2006-11-06 22:34:41 · answer #1 · answered by just jenn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that that is not fair on your husband to cheat so be open with him he may want you to have a good time ... you never know...
2006-11-06 23:03:51 · answer #2 · answered by brooke_sits_in_three 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you still have a husband then that's a bit of a problem...
2006-11-06 19:42:49 · answer #3 · answered by Rodiak 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yeah, going to have to be honest with the hubby first, then figure out the next step.
who knows, he might be supportive.....
2006-11-06 19:46:31 · answer #4 · answered by Mac Momma 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dunno what your husband will say...I'm hoping that you know him better than I do.
2006-11-06 22:36:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋