2006-11-06 19:33:17 · 19 answers · asked by Sander Lewls 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
never been murdered but wish that i had after i was ganged raped eight years ago. rap takes something away from a person that they can never get back. it definatly made me more aware of my surroundings and just because veryone say that they are a friend are not a friend. but in a way i am glad it happened because i got the satisfaction of seeing them go to jail for 10 years and ruin their academic standings in college, and it also made me a stronger person and gave me the strength and courage to talk about it to others and help them.
2006-11-06 19:38:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I wold imagine being raped. If you are murdered even if you are tortured slowly in the end you die and that's it. I am a Christian so I believe that when I die I will go to heaven and probably not be too concerned with how I got there. Meaning that I don't think the bad feelings follow you to heaven. If a women is raped she has to pick the pieces of her life up and try to move on. I wold not want to have either happen to me, but, murder is a finality while rape continues on with you until you die.
2006-11-06 21:51:27 · answer #2 · answered by Only hell mama ever raised 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know women who have been raped and are in a great deal of pain. The once that have coped well are the once that have learned to forgive the rapist because the anger and hatred was distroying them and had no effect on the rapist but forgiving helped them move on. If they are dead they wouldn't have been able to do this. Regardless they are not the only victims. Their family are also affected and some of them have children.
I would go with being murdered as the worst because your family won't have you any more.
2006-11-06 19:46:12 · answer #3 · answered by John T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i believe that being raped is worse haveing to live the rest of your life with what happened lingering in the back of your mind never fully trusting people again never feeling the same way about sex and about the oppisite sex evey little thing in your life changes when your raped from the wway you think to the way you act your never the same againit's been 12 years since it happened to me the first time i never healed form that and only three years since some one tried and i am still his prisoner rape is the worst thing that could happen to a women it makes some of us stronger but it kills some of us
2006-11-06 19:44:13 · answer #4 · answered by Ralina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being raped because youre being overpowered and forced into something. I am not afraid of death, so I would take murder over rape. In fact I would take murder over any infringement of my free will.
2006-11-06 19:41:55 · answer #5 · answered by Barefoot Chick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
being murdered is always the worst, since you are DEAD. However, being raped happens again and again as you tell the police, the social workers, thecourt what happened to you.
2006-11-06 19:41:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
obviously both because after being raped you wish to die . and most likely hate your self for the rest of your life i know if i were to get raped i would kill my self what is the point of living when all you do is hate your self. and that is definitely worse than being dead. living life completely dead
2006-11-06 19:54:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think both would be hard to deal with but when you are murdered you are dead when someone rapes you you have to live with that pain forever!
2006-11-06 19:35:40 · answer #8 · answered by SHENA B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Murdered.
I Remember A Year Ago When I Was Murdered.
Lol
2006-11-06 19:36:11 · answer #9 · answered by alyssa! 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
murdered of course..but it might depend on how you were raped also.
2006-11-06 20:11:07 · answer #10 · answered by bipolarbear 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋