what can i possibly say to him, i am in complete despair
2006-11-06 19:22:14 · 13 answers · asked by lucas w 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
tell him that life sucks. And that no matter what, we are all alone at that last moment. The only thing that matters in this life, is how we will approach it. He is here for a reason. He has the choice of looking life down the throat, grabbing it's tonsils, and saying, hell no, I'm not going down like this. F&*K'm all. If suicide is his only option, then that is his decision to make. But I am here to tell you, if he can name three things, that he truly enjoys, three things that he's always wanted to do, and three people who will truly be hurt and not understand why he's left them, then there are at least 3 things that need to be done before he checks out.
Be strong, go to bed, tomorrow is another day.
2006-11-06 19:30:12 · answer #1 · answered by Sad-Dad 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i'm sorry but if what you are saying is true then what the hell are you doing on the computer you should be putting every bit of your energy and strainght in to stopping him wether that ment you had to call the cops and have them do some thing i dont know but you sould deffinetly not be sitting there at your computer hoping for some one to help you you need to help your friend speek from the heart and it wont be that hard if you truely gut renching honeslty speek from your heart
2006-11-06 19:28:20 · answer #2 · answered by Ralina 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
OK this sounds harsh, but if you friend was going to kill himself he wouldn't be there discussing it with you, he would have done it already.
What you need to do is distract him for a while? And then suggest he get therapy to begin to sort himself out....because in essence he is asking for your help. Look up in a phone book therapists, and try calling one
2006-11-06 19:25:51 · answer #3 · answered by chelles_insanity 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-28 21:06:49 · answer #4 · answered by picart 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call the suicide hotline in your neighborhood. Keep talking with him. Don't leave him alone at any time. Exhibit a sense of calm and confidence. Let him know he is loved.
2006-11-06 19:48:37 · answer #5 · answered by Kent 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay someone who displays in front of another person that he is going to "KILL" himself is someone shouting for attention.
If you really believe that he is going to carry out this act,
CALL 911...why are you on the computer asking us??!!??
Best regards :(
2006-11-06 19:35:35 · answer #6 · answered by Lovely 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well u should tell him to do it quick because i havent got all night i have to answer some more usless questions and in most cases the answers make more sence than the questions
2006-11-06 19:49:19 · answer #7 · answered by mycerrie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call 911!
2006-11-06 19:47:01 · answer #8 · answered by Michelle *The Truth Hurts 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Load the gun and explain how to use it. Don't chicken out now you pansy. Help him get it over with. Did you ever think it might be you driving him to this decision?
2006-11-06 20:37:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
My mann! Why dont we go for a cruise to Ja-mai-ka for a holiday.
2006-11-06 19:24:38 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋