I've been married to this guy for 21/2 yrs... I did my wifely duties (I mean everything).. but for some reason nothing I did was good enough...even went to counceling...it was a roller coaster ride....he was not interested in sex (rather watch porno..but he was hiding it)
I thought the porno was the only problem..find out he was cheating on me all along.. the other girl knows that he's married.
We are separated now and I move to different state... I'm about to file for divorce... to add insult to injury, I did some investigation and find out that he use our credit card when he bought her plane ticket last december to visit him, but for some reason it was cancelled....now the girl was about to use thesame ticket to see him for Thanksgiving and b-day. He denied about the other girl when I confronted him...(He'll find out sooner or later that I knew... coz I cancelled the ticket)...I want revenge.. or should I let "KARMA" take care of it.... :( :(
2006-11-06 19:05:53 · 20 answers · asked by R 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I believe in karma but the problem with karma is sometimes it takes a long time to come around. You can always speed things along.
2006-11-06 19:28:29 · answer #1 · answered by Leila G 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
In Karma conception, unhealthy karma are not able to be defeated by means of doing well karmas. The account for unhealthy karmas are separate. And the account of well karmas are separate. The results of karma are not able to be mitigated. It should be loved or suffered. There is a Sanskrit Sloka: "Avasyam anubhogthavyam kritham karma subha asubham; naa bhugtham ksheeyathe karma kalpa koti sathairapi". Meaning; We ought to suffer the consequences of our karmas, if it is well or unhealthy. No karma gets erased by means of doing different deeds. Sometime we must suppose that we don't seem to be doing and that nature is bringing this kind of condition to drive us to take a usual path to adopt that motion. There is a pronouncing in Mahanarayana Upanishad: "Kamokarsheet Manyurakarsheet Namo Namah". It is an tricky factor, which I don't desire to provide an explanation for right here. Those who realize can realize.
2016-09-01 08:33:28 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hon....I have a similar story. Except for the girl part. Mine is a long story...and the details don't really matter it is the betrayal that matters.
Believe me Karma will get him in the end.
Don't seek revenge, he most likely will return the deed and you will be misserable.
The best revenge I found was for me to be happy and sucessful and better without him. Never let him see you fret.
I do say bravo for canceling the air line tickets. But your next move is to cancel all mutual credit cards and get a sharp attorney who will protect your interests. Then stop any thoughts of revenge because in the long run this will only hurt you.
2006-11-06 19:13:40 · answer #3 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Karma will eventually happen, but sometimes it takes just too long! Have you ever noticed that some really really terrible people get rewarded while hardworking good individuals do not even though they have done everything right? Well they say judgment day will occur upon their death bed, but sometimes we aren't there to witness what punishment they will get, so it never hurts to have a little fun along the way.....like revenge, but if you over due it and end up like him, then you guys are even and Karma will not likely occur for either of you.
2006-11-06 19:12:46 · answer #4 · answered by ddDan86 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Karma is a wonderful thing, but if you need more Look at it like this your helping to balance the scales of justice. I have been told revenge is the perfect self-therapy and cheaper than a therapist. If you decide to go for it plan carefully without breaking the law and afterward know it's over and move on with your life. Need help finding a punishment to fit the crime go to www.getrevengeonyourx.com Have fun
2006-11-06 20:16:36 · answer #5 · answered by dettie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let Karma take care of it. Two wrongs don't make a right, and you only feel better for a little while. Take the high road and just move on and be happy. Living well is the best revenge.
2006-11-06 19:19:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I do believe in Karma and sister, don't trip on this dude. He will get his in time. Your job is to take care of you... and get the hey up out of that mess. But the good thing about karma is it goes both ways. You were a good woman and wife and one day you will be rewarded. Just don't wait for your reward... let it come. Good luck.
2006-11-06 19:32:34 · answer #7 · answered by Tara 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes let karma take care of it. What goes around comes around. And the sooner you stop responding to things that he has done or said to you, the sooner you will get over that loser and eventually meet a man that will treat you like gold. Be strong.
2006-11-06 19:38:31 · answer #8 · answered by Das 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe in Karma but it would be a cold day in if I was going to have it charged on my credit card. I would definitely keep a close eye on the expenses if your name is attatched in any way. Get your name off and get out before he sweet talks you back and brings you home something you are unable to get rid of!!! GOOD LUCK!
2006-11-06 19:36:51 · answer #9 · answered by Angie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont believe in karma or revenge. Seriously just move on and try to forget about him. Revenge just keeps the memory of pain alive longer and makes it more difficul to get back to noramlcy.
2006-11-06 19:10:05 · answer #10 · answered by keg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋