I know, this is a weird question. But I'm bisexual (I think so anyway) and I want to meet another girl to have a relationship with. I'm in a kind of small town. I need help. lol Um.. Any suggestions on how to meet a girl without letting EVERYONE know im bisexual?
ps. I really dont know how to ask this question, so.. I hope you understand where I'm getting at.
2006-11-06 19:02:53 · 10 answers · asked by Pretty Mommy 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
By the way, I'm 18. and... i have a boyfriend.. I know most people will probably think its wrong, but we don't (no im not looking for a threesome!!! thats not what this is about)
2006-11-06 19:13:07 · update #1
oh and i have a 3 month old son.. lol
2006-11-06 19:14:35 · update #2
Oh goodness... lol people making me edit this over and over.. lol I think I'm bi, because I like girls, think they are hot, sexy, i have REAL crushes on them. -(emotional) I've made out with a girl... blah blah blah.. that's why. Oh and I'm wanting to meet a girl, to make sure I am, before i let everyone know. :D
2006-11-06 19:20:46 · update #3
...the small town thing is a definite draw back, so if you're able to travel a bit to a larger city?, this may be to your advantage...
...the one thing you have to decide is "what type of grrrl intrests you the most?",...are you looking to meet a very feminine grrrl?, or one that's more tom-boyish?,...i'm sure you have thought about this?
...your attitude is highly important,...be out-going, smile, and be friendly to everyone you meet,...compliment grrrls you like,...tell them how great they look in the particular outfit they're wearing, you know how much grrrls like to be noticed, *wink*...
...try to plan a day of shopping with a group of friends,...pay particular attention to what you're wearing that day,...look your absolute best, without being "too" showy, if you know what i mean?,...give "them" the oppourtunity to "notice" you and how great you look...
...over lunch, discuss fashion,...explain your feelings about what style of skirt, dress, blazer, etc, looks good on which grrrl,...then turn to the grrrl your most interested in, and tell her how great she would look in that particular outfit...complimentary conversation is a must...
...once you establish a repore with the "one",...be confident, notice every detail about her,...her earrings, her lipstick or gloss, the perfume she may be wearing,...these are more intimate and meaninful things she likes,...so be attentive to her answers when you ask her about why she likes that perfume?...and then tell her how much you like it as well, *wink*...
...as long as you're not overly aggressive, and truely sincere about what you like about "her",...there is a very good chance you may become very good friends,...then and only then should you share your "curiosity" in a private conversation...
...my best wishes are with you,...oh, and one more thing, don't forget to laugh and have fun too...
2006-11-06 22:58:21 · answer #1 · answered by tiny dancer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im Bi curious, dat means i also dont kno if i am bi maself but ive met this gal a year younger then me and ive spoken to her for about nearlly 2years and ive met her ova a chat site by phone internet, and ive onli just met her.... she's 15 and im 16 but she already knows what she is, wel i think, she say's she might be turning lez bcoz she's done it to many times with lads an she say's it's starting to bore her and dat galz can be so much betta, an now i have asked her out, i will eventually find out what im truelly am, straight, bi or lez.
So babe a way for you to know the answer to ur question is wait an find a way out of it, if not find a way that you can prove what u actuali are... Good Luck xx
2006-11-06 20:52:10 · answer #2 · answered by Leah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know exactlyy what you are going thru, I mean. Small town and eveything. I am bisexual, and I have been sure of it since I was 16. I tryed it to make sure, just like you want to do. I'll tell you right now, it's not very easy to find a girl, but you have to be willing to try. The best way to do it is to talk to a person you trust, or maybe ever try talking to new girls. You may have a bisexual friend already and not know it. It worked that way for me. All I can say is be brave. Best of luck to you.
2006-11-06 21:32:43 · answer #3 · answered by xxbashful_babydxx 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
OK well first I don't know how old you are....but you can go out to a club. Go to a larger city, they have "freaky" clubs everywhere. If you are too young to go to a club, then trust me there are A LOT more girls like you than you think. Let this kind of thing find you though. If you end up fooling around with a girl in your school on one drunk night, this could lead to some major tormenting at school for you. Trust me if you are truly bisexual then you will have opportunities one day.
2006-11-06 19:07:39 · answer #4 · answered by samantha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get into politics, besides helping others, you get to meet lots of people with odd tastes.
2006-11-06 19:07:45 · answer #5 · answered by Marcus R. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOu can't do anything in a small town without everyone knowing it.
2006-11-06 19:05:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hang around some gay guys...they always attract women.
2006-11-06 19:52:22 · answer #7 · answered by Kent 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go ahead find a lady but what if you isn't bi ?Why do you think so neways ?
2006-11-06 19:18:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm bi and would be more than happpy to talk to you! e-mail me.. hazeleyes1040@yahoo.com
2006-11-07 07:19:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
better wait to find out if you are bi....
2006-11-06 19:05:23 · answer #10 · answered by cork 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋