need advice having family problem?

Question

i have left my husband last wk thursday.he has been beating me.i jst got married in june dis year.i hav already reported to the police.

i have known my husband 4 more than 4yrs than we got married after our marriage he changed completely.i m a nurse by proffession-wat i dnt understand is where i went wrong.why he kips beating me and he drinks alot but he keeps telling my parents he loves me.i hate dis u c.i have packed my stuff i am renting alone now.my family is supportive bt my kips saying think of their status and whos gona be my life partner when i cud nt stay wid my husband for more than 4mths of marriage

Answer 1

first of all...can you please write more legibly? second of all you need to do what is right for you. who cares what other people think about your situation. you are in a bad situation and you got yourself out. good for you. file for divorce, speak to a lawyer, take the police report with you to take to your attorney, seek out some shelters and some battered womens help.

Answer 2

Do not go back to that loser. He is an abusive alcoholic and you have no business being with someone who wants to use you as a punching bag. That fact that he tells your family that he loves you is just something he does to hide the fact that he is a monster, and to convince himself that he doesn't have a problem. That's what alcoholics do. And the last thing your parents should concern themselves with is their so called status. What they should worry about is that that animal is beating their daughter up! Do what you have to to keep safe, and if your parents have a problem with that, just remember, that's their problem, not yours. Shame on them!

Answer 3

Good take your life in your hands and forget the Husband Why did you get married to him with closed eyes. You should have known from so many things that he was not marriage material

Answer 4

No, she LEFT him.. there is a difference. Anyway, my mom finally left my dad after 20 years of abuse and 9 months ago. She had to leave the state, and get a restraining order. She hasn't been back since. She hasn't even been back to see my newborn. But, that isn't because she's scared of him anymore. She just doesn't have to money. ANYWAY.. you need to stay gone... It'll work itself out

i really don't understand your question though... email me at [e-mail] if you want to talk

Answer 5

first and foremost you are only married within a year. there must be a valid reason for every thing that you do. you did things that trigger her to beat you and for sure he did something that makes you do to anger him. marriage is a life time adjustment, each day there will be a surprising thing that will come that you won't expect from one another. and for a year marriage, you are under a marital adjustment...... think 10o times.... to live with broken family is very tough... Good luck ...hope you can work and patch things up...God Bless!

Answer 6

You did the right thing. Your husband has a problem that he needs professional help for. His drinking is also causing his behavior. If you didn't leave sooner, you could've been severely hurt or even worse.

Answer 7

Did you see Dr.Phil show
I saw yesterday a episode of Dr.Phil, there were 4 guests who had same problem like yours. If you can contact Dr.Phil show they will give you better advice on how to deal with your problem, they were saying on the show it is a very serious problem

Answer 8

Move on file for divorce. You better not be lying either. My ex would claim I abused her but nothing of the sort happened. 2 sides to every story let him explain his as well. Either way you two dont belong together so move on.

Answer 9

If your husband is beating you, you have done a good job of leaving him. Move on to your new life. You are lucky to find out so soon.

Answer 10

Looks like you solved the problem. What more do you want to know? Just make sure the sniveling snot monster never comes near you again.