I have friends but no best friend and it bothers me. I've always had one and now I don't. I'm married and in college and work and don't only talk to my friends usually on the weekends. I still don't have a friend that really close and I can talk to about everything. Has anyone else ever been in thi situation?
2006-11-06 17:32:57 · 9 answers · asked by Wonderious 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I'm thinking that if you keep making new friends you'll eventually become really close to one of them. It's sort of like looking for love, you just have to let it happen on its own rather than looking for it. It takes a while to build that kind of trust.
2006-11-06 18:33:17 · answer #1 · answered by Ms. Switch 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah i have been in this situation ever since i left school. I hate it because sometimes i feel really good like when i'm keeping in contact with all my friends and i think "wow, i have quite a few friends" and i feel happy with myself but then it all changes the next week and when i feel like doing something and those few people are busy it's depressing because you feel as though you don't have many friends at all.
I think it's something that everyone goes through because some friends might do something to annoy you and so you don't really feel like making the effort of keeping in contact with them but i'm sure it will pick up and i'm sure someone will come along that will have a deep understanding for you and that will a best friend :)
Keep your chin up darl !! :)
2006-11-06 17:40:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Definitely. But then I came to the conclusion that I didn't need a best friend there all the time. Starting a journal is definitely a good idea.
2006-11-06 17:38:32 · answer #3 · answered by Allie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been in this situation tons of times. You need to focus on something else. Stop thinking about having no best friend.
2006-11-06 17:51:21 · answer #4 · answered by Out of Reach 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah me and i have been like you for 4 years but i have not one friend and you know what i wish i had a best friend i cry every night because im depressed i hope your ok take care
2006-11-06 17:37:54 · answer #5 · answered by babygirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im in it now... well what i have done is .. i use myspace.com to keep in touch with all my old friends that i moved away from.. and there is where i can vent and leave em msgs. when they arent available... its really easy and alot of fun..
2006-11-06 17:41:09 · answer #6 · answered by c t 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yup.
Start a journal.
2006-11-06 17:36:14 · answer #7 · answered by opinionative_1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
EVERY ONE NEED A BEST FRIEND
2006-11-06 18:55:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yup.
2006-11-06 19:40:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋