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I currently started talking to an acquaintance that I knew from the past. We both have the same views on marriage, children, ect. (we grew up in the same church together)...

Anyways...we live 100 miles from each other...and he wants me to move in with him in two months when his lease is up...(I am not sure if I am ready for that)...

But anyways...We talk every day for hours...but I am nervous about the whole long distance thing...I mean If I stay where Im at and he stays where he lives...what are the chances of us staying together???

I mean we have finally been given a chance to be together and I am scared that I will lose that chance because of the distance between us.

2006-11-06 17:23:20 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Other - Family & Relationships

5 answers

GO WIT UR FIRST JUDGEMENT FRM THE MIND IT WILL LEAD U IN THE RIGHT DIRECTION

2006-11-06 18:07:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

I would tell him what your fear of moving in with him is. If you guys have known each other that long and talk as much as you say you do then he might shed some light for you. If you have no problem moving then why not move closer to him and get your own place and start from there. I hope everything works out for you. If you feel like he is the one then I would give it a shot! There is nothing worse that wondering what might have been! Good Luck to You.

2006-11-07 01:41:41 · answer #2 · answered by NtheDark 1 · 0 0

Not worth my time. If you are far away and hardly see each other then what is the point find someone that you can actually see and touch and go on dates with. Why dont you move in his area do not move in with him just rent a place that is nearer to him. If you can not do that then i would think the relationship would fail.

2006-11-07 01:25:28 · answer #3 · answered by knowssignlanguage 6 · 0 0

If he is putting you into a position like if you don't move there the relationship is over, it might not be the best of ideas. However, if you really want a committed relationship with him, it would be better to be closer to him, as in living with him/closer to him. If you feel as if you want to just be friends with him, which it sounds as if you don't, but if you do, where you are is fine.

2006-11-07 01:27:41 · answer #4 · answered by wizard of stealth 3 · 0 0

Things are blissfully perfect UNTIL you move in with someone. If you're hesitant, I suggest you trust your judgement.

2006-11-07 01:29:14 · answer #5 · answered by Allie 2 · 0 0

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