when your in love with someone does it matter what their age is..
as long as they are over 18yrs and you are too
2006-11-06 16:35:57 · 32 answers · asked by soundlady 5 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
If one is very young it might not work in her (his) favor because she (he) will be stepping into a on going life and will have to find a space in it and most of the time that will mean making concessions. For example: if a 20 yo woman marries a 30 yo man, chances are he will be making a lot more than her. She will have to find a job at wherever his job takes him, if she is able to find one at all. If she has any opportunity that requires relocating, that will not happen. The older person is likely to have a previous family and she will have to deal with that.
The younger person also tends to miss out a lot of lives growing up experiences, like buying furniture for your new home one piece at a time. Taking that first trip to Europe and finding out things together. And many other things that is part of the experience of maturing. The younger person will basically be taking a guided tour of life.
2006-11-06 16:53:38 · answer #1 · answered by John Dull est 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No, it doesnt matter but there may be a generation gap. My parents are almost 20 years apart. But my mom (the younger of the two) is a history buff and my dad is in great physical shape for his age so the difference never bothered them. Love is Love and you may find that you get along better with someone much older than you than someone your same age. It depends on the person.
2006-11-06 16:41:32 · answer #2 · answered by Sunflower 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For me I will say not Letting Age Be a Factor in L:ove.
Fall in love at any age, but should be aware of the world, aware of wht you are doing.If you are really dont understand what love really is let the time to prove it keep this relation as friendship first.
I know people who developed puppy love at that age 18+.
move cautiously because you may realize that you may just be "falling into someone" vs. "falling into love". The falling is always easier than the staying.
2006-11-06 16:53:45 · answer #3 · answered by CK 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Depends on how big of an age difference. You also have to take in to account society and culture. A 35 year old is going to be in a totally different place in his life than a 23 year old would be.
2006-11-06 16:41:17 · answer #4 · answered by ... 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I personally think there should not be a gap of more than 5 years.But age is not a factor,if two people are truly happy and love each other it shouldn't matter.
2006-11-06 20:12:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No age is not a issue that you should be worried about . Its love for one another that is most important. Its best to get to know one another really well before tying the knot and then later finding out the hard way that your not compatible with each other.
2006-11-06 16:42:37 · answer #6 · answered by saltydog54_47591 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Age doesn't matter if it is within reason, i mean an age difference of 30-40 years is too much but i personal think 5-10 yrs is ok.
2006-11-06 16:40:55 · answer #7 · answered by gonicki31 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Maximum 8 years
2006-11-06 16:37:05 · answer #8 · answered by volkanpirincci 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
As long as you're both of legal age, it shouldn't matter to anyone but the couple. Let love rule (LK).
2006-11-06 16:39:55 · answer #9 · answered by foxymama1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Age is no factor...Western society has made it a factor however.
Compatibility, honesty, love, and care should be the main factors.
2006-11-06 16:39:37 · answer #10 · answered by pinelake302 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋