HE cheated on me by lettin another girl in my house when i was at work an he made a porno tape wit her wit my camcorda in my bed an now he is beggin for me to *** back shoud i go back we been together for 3 years,i really dont kno what to do plezz help,i really HATE him
2006-11-06 16:27:17 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
He totally disrespected you especially in your own house, you should not get back with him because he will think it was ok and do it again since you forgave him the first time...He is an A S S and you need to move on..
2006-11-06 16:36:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to continue to allow this man to think he has you wrapped around his finger, then go ahead and take him back. You already know that he doesn't respect you. He had sex in the bed you both shared. Why do you think you deserve to be treated like crap. You need to move on and not ever look back. He will continue doing what he did no matter who he is with. Good luck and GOD bless.
2006-11-07 01:18:00 · answer #2 · answered by cookie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG! ok..that is a little more than just cheating..that is disrepectful..and OMG all so wrong..brings cheating to a whole new level..
"I Love you hun, but I got a tape of a gal in our bed"..wtf...I would hate him tooo...
If you really hate him dont get back with him, in fact, if he could cheat on you in such a low freaking way as you described..he doesnt deserve you, he deserves the wh*re that he took to your bed...
you deserve much better...
2006-11-06 17:31:06 · answer #3 · answered by giveu2tictacs 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Now i have to ask you a question. Where is that video? Did it accidentally get sent to his mom and posted on the internet? Then you can say you are even and get back together with the man you love to hate, or hate to love. What better way to make him miserable?
2006-11-06 16:58:39 · answer #4 · answered by jon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like this guy somewhat likes you, yet his timing is undesirable and it variety of sounds like he can't be and not utilising a girl buddy so he retains attaching himself to ladies that he does not somewhat like and retains hoping he can connect with you. there's possible that he's basically a participant, in spite of the undeniable fact that it is likewise possible that the only he somewhat needs is you and while he gets you, he will certainly be truthful. in case you extremely like him, supply him a wager. yet as quickly as I have been you, i might tell him that the subsequent time he's "unfastened" which you would be drawn to listening to from him, then take a seat returned and wait. If he's extremely fascinated, he will wreck it off together with his modern-day lady buddy and be calling you interior hours.
2016-10-21 09:55:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He l l no dont get back with him he will do it again besides it makes you look weak and makes it seem like you cant get no man and do no better you dont need oh and as far as the years that dont mean nothing i will tell what boy george says time makes lovers feel like theve got something real but you and me know they have got nothing but time time is just that time
2006-11-06 18:11:51 · answer #6 · answered by chips 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why would you want to take him back? he betrayed you. in your own bed. listen to what your gut tells you.
consider this - are you better off without him? will you be miserable with him? will you ever be able to trust him again?
this might not be true of everyone, but once a cheater always a cheater. have more respect for you (since he obviously doesn't have any). good luck.
2006-11-06 16:38:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't. However, you need to take into consideration if you don't stay for a little while--he will get with her. I'd stay long enough to show her she's not woman enough to take my man and then drop his ***. It happened to me( only a different situation) and that's exactly what i did. Then when he did try to fall back on her she didn't want him. There he was with only his own hand to comfort him.
2006-11-06 16:37:41 · answer #8 · answered by kori22 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
From a mans point of view, he did once and he will do it again. Kick him out for sure. Forget the scum bag.
2006-11-06 16:34:53 · answer #9 · answered by lonetraveler 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't take him back. You'd be utterly stupid if you let him back in your life when he obviously disrespected and betrayed you. Don't fall for the puppy dog looks.
2006-11-06 16:30:54 · answer #10 · answered by Trillian 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋