I cry alot,My sister and I joined a Church after our Mother died,05... eight months later my sister died. Since then I've gained a trimendous amount of weight, I have no friends, or family left that can take their place. I am married and have kids, but they don't understand. My Sister has kids, and they act like they hate me since my sister died...I didn't give them a chance to plan their Mom's funeral, I did it on my own, and now I regret it, but at the time, they couldn't afford it, and I was just trying to show them respect and love. Doing so I made enemies of my neices/nephews. I also have my sister's mentally handicapped daughter, she is 36, and is like 3...I am 54 and I am wearing down in my health because of my obessity...I have pains where I never had them before. I find it hard to do anything because of my weight. I don't work now because it is hard to do anything when you are taking care of a handicap person that depends on you for everything/plus my weight doesn't help me.
2006-11-06 16:15:32 · 4 answers · asked by Sheelalake 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Do what your sister and mother would want you to do. Lose the weight, stop feeling sorry for youself, take care of your sister's grown daughter, but take time for yourself as well. Perk up! You were blessed with a longer life, so don't waste it! Your sister and mom are looking down at you - make them smile! Get out and celebrate life, make new friends, take up hobbies, do good deeds for others, apologize to the sister's kids and move on if they don't accept it. Your life is not good right now, sweetie! Turn it around and give it a push!
2006-11-06 16:40:07 · answer #1 · answered by Rainfog 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey you sound like you have lost so much. I am so soory for you. I think you should talk to your pastor or people from your church they would give you moral support and maybe even take turns helping you with your niece. I know my church does a lot of things like that. It will take time to get over what you have been through. I will say a prayer for you. Just talking about it can help. I love you and hope you get well soon. God be with you forever. I know with all the prayers you will see a difference soon. Lots of hugs for you.
2006-11-06 16:38:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm able to purely think of how this must be for you and your daughter, yet no i do no longer think of this could properly be a curse for marrying a non-Muslim. i grew to become into Christian and married a Muslim and each thing is stunning, yet undesirable issues can ensue in any courting, faith aside. If it have been me, i could break up. save being a competent occasion of a Muslim in direction of your spouse and on your daughters sake. i do no longer doubt which you cared on your spouse from the beginning up yet marrying her purely with the aid of fact she reported she could convert could have been the place you went incorrect. If somebody converts to Islam it would be with the aid of fact they actually have confidence in it and not with the aid of fact they say, " whats up I married a Muslim, so why no longer convert". save making dua on your spouse that she sees the fact in Islam and differences her procedures. talk to a lawyer or public defender or possibly if there's a college with a regulation college close by then touch them and ask what's the terrific way on your concern to get much less costly criminal suggestions. in spite of her kinfolk's connections, you already know the fact and others will see it to boot. in case you're interior the U. S. then talk over with somebody at baby protective centers and spot in the event that they could assist you in holding a lawyer to get custody of your daughter till this occasion is resolved. no count what Allah won't placed on your shoulders greater desirable than you are able to bear. we ought to consistently all make dua for you, your daughter, spouse and her kinfolk that each and one and all of it is resolved one way or yet another.
2016-10-03 09:07:11 · answer #3 · answered by erlebach 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lord--I'm SOOO SORRY!
You really need to find someone to talk to/vent to!
Any friends at all--even somebody on-line! If nothing else
seek a professional or someone from your church!
try to patch things up with neices --maybe even show them this!
keep trying--do things you can control like body image as much as possible--TAKE BABY STEPS---it'll take awhile BUT YOU CAN DO IT!!
2006-11-06 16:22:56 · answer #4 · answered by f4fanactic 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋