i mean like i know stereotypically some are rude with no kinda class but i mean i think we're pretty. and, i do like our bodies. why do some people feel diffrently??
2006-11-06 15:51:57 · 19 answers · asked by No n 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Other - Cultures & Groups
the lady was beautiful on the link that you sent me. but i just dont get why the hell black women think being light skinned is better either. It's like no! we're black we're not white, asian,latin,or middle eastern. were BLACK! so stop trying to make us something diff then what we are. even some black guys only like light skined or white women. another question 4 u guys.... does white skin make a girl look more delicate and feminine? does dark skin make women look masculine and aggressive?
2006-11-06 16:24:36 · update #1
I personally love black women. I agree with you about the stereotypes hurting them. Think about this though: every trait that black men have historically thought wonderful about black women are now popular in America through the miracles of plastic surgery.
Go back some years before these procedures and you will find certain establishments (Hollywood and other arts) turning down black women who had fine tight shapes due to "too african" (full lips and high butt) or some other similarly concocted racist crap. Not anymore.
You see, the problem isn't that black women aren't beautiful, it's that other cultures refuse to acknowledge that beauty unless they can copy it among themselves. Thus the butt-injection, lip-injection, and skin darkening.
2006-11-06 15:58:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
I don't know what you mean by least desired. Each middle class person in the world on average will be equally liked and desired as any other person, because on average we all know about the same amount of people. I have seen a lot of beautiful black women. I have seen a lot of ugly black women. I have seen a lot of beautiful white women. I have seen a lot of ugly white women. There are an equal amount in each race. I think you might not be as desired by white men, if that's what you mean, because we are just made to be attracted to people of our own basic ethnicity and origin. Like you usually see, even in America, a Mexican will marry a Mexican, a European Swiss another European Swiss, etc., even over here.
Each person created will always have a fairly equal amount of people desiring her/him.
I also don't think it has any thing to do with the fact that low-class black women are rude sometimes. All colors of all people, when they're third class, are simply that- third class. You can tell by looking at a person whether they are intelligent and friendly or not.
If you're not feeling desired right now, just wait- your true love will come!!
:o)
Love,
MaryAnna
2006-11-07 00:10:53 · answer #2 · answered by nemo 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Not in my eyes. No m'am black women are not the least desired to me. There are beautiful women from all races. I met some of the kindest and sweetest black girls before. I would marry one of them over a shallow ignorance woman of other race anytime. Sterotypes are stupid. America "USA" is a country full of shallow ignorance people that is why the stereotype is perpetuating.
btw: I'm an asian man
2006-11-07 07:09:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Because people believe the stereotype.
The stereotype was invented by some insecure person to discourage people from seeing the true beauty of black women.
Don't fall into the hype, girl.
Hold your head up.
I know I am BEAUTIFUL, SUCCESSFUL, YOUNG, SEXY and INTELLIGENT, 5 powerful blows to their egos and lies.
When they see it all, they are overwhelmed by it because it shatters their stereotype of a ghetto, fat, rude, welfare, kids with multiple fathers having woman.
Shatters like glass. Then they have no where to run, exposing that weak fragile little person inside.
2006-11-07 13:47:15 · answer #4 · answered by Mary C 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Black women are the most desired women on the planet. Remember when white slave owners chose unbathed Black women over their well manicured white wives. black women have been fighting off all races since the beginning of time. Even to this day Black women don't want White men, and White guys just cop attitudes and blame it on the Black girl. As if we want a whiny White boy who blames all his problems on the 'system' (affirmative action, police watchdog groups) goes bald at age 32 and has nasty hair all over his stomach. If White girls don't want them, then why should we?
2006-11-07 01:05:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
I know be proud that you're black...we come in different complexions...we age beautifully come on!! LOL
I'm not mean...unless you're a disrepecting male!! I show no mercy then I'll make you cry...lol...if you're respectful you'll think I'm the nicest girl in the world..and I'd never get angry at anyone
2006-11-08 05:06:40 · answer #6 · answered by 1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, I don't see how that stereotyped started because men of all reasons try to hit on me alllllllllllllllll the time but luckily I'm engaged. I could care less if they don't find me attractive anyways, because I know I'm pretty.
2006-11-07 00:10:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. I wouldn't know if black women are the least desired. But I'm gay, and I surely do like gay men of all races, including Black men.
2006-11-06 23:54:38 · answer #8 · answered by Angry Gay Man 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Contrary to popular belief black women are the most desired in the world., its just that many men from other cultures are intimidated by us. even our own brothers. Don't worry girl,the world loves us in all our colors from light bright to the deepest darkest chocolate you have ever seen
2006-11-06 23:58:56 · answer #9 · answered by yellabanana77 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Two words. Eartha Kitt.
http://www.danacountryman.com/csm/back/Number24/Eartha-Kitt-1953a.jpg
And what straight man could turn down this?:
http://www.animationarchive.org/pics/coalblackcoal.jpg
2006-11-07 00:01:17 · answer #10 · answered by Betty Mae Bop 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋