I love my baby's father so much, but I don't think he wants to be with me like i want to be with him. I also think he want to be with other people but doesn't want me to be anyone. He wants his cake and eat it to. I don't have concrete evidence that he is with someone but I suspect it, and it hurts so bad. He don't want me to know, because he finds all kind of ways to hide what he's doing. When i finally meet someone he always convinces me to leave him alone. Just don't know what to do!!!
2006-11-06 15:25:26 · 6 answers · asked by trina24 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I think that you should leave him and look for somebody who will love you in return before you leave him tell him that he can see the baby anytime he wants. Tell him you deserve to be loved and that you need somebody that you can trust not to hide anything if he really cares about you and the baby he'll try to work out things between the two of you. If not then you might as well start looking for somebody else.
2006-11-06 18:01:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay well your baby daddy should always feel like he can be honest with you. if you talk to him and he doesnt come clean then you should give him his space before he gets upset. you dont want that to happen to you. if you think he doesnt want to be with you then maybe you should just let it happen. he could have his reasons. if he gestures that he wants you to leave him alone then do it. you shouldnt force it. try talking to him when he is ina better mood and see what happens. i know you want the relationship to work but just because you have his child doesnt mean it would work out. just try and talk to him. see what happens.
2006-11-06 15:31:26 · answer #2 · answered by shanice 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have not said much regarding why you think he's messing around, but usually when a woman thinks a guy is playing, she is usually correct. Sit down and tell him exactly how you feel and demand streight answers from him or drop him.
2006-11-06 15:33:16 · answer #3 · answered by Nort 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to boost your self esteem and leave him. Why would you want to raise a child with someone who doesn't respect you or your relationship.
2006-11-06 15:28:25 · answer #4 · answered by jagbeeton 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
move on. it is hard i know but it is not health to let him control your life and that is what he is doing. find someone elese to chill with and tell him. let him see his child and be civil but that is all
2006-11-06 15:28:45 · answer #5 · answered by jumiboo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say you work it on the street corner,Baby.
2006-11-06 15:27:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋