How come girls hide it when they've slept around. Guys talk about it all the time, it doesn't make it right though. Girls please stop playing hide and go seek, I'm tired of seeking.
2006-11-06 15:11:33 · 8 answers · asked by SmoOv 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
How can you not know the answer to this? There is still a HUGE DOUBLE STANDARD that we face as women. I'm 28 years old and female - let's say I've slept with 20 men. A lot of people are going to judge me and think very poorly of me because of that. Now let's say I'm a man (same age, 28) and have slept with 20 women - a lot LESS people are going to think poorly of me because of that, some might even think that isn't that many girls and that I should go out and sleep with more!
Don't get me wrong though - girls DO talk about it all the time (sex) with their girlfriends. In college my friends and I joked about how we couldn't have a conversation that didn't involve talking about sex in some way. Some girls still hide it from other girls for fear of judgment, but can you really blame them from hiding it from men? No. And frankly its none of your business - if you NEED to know how many guys a girl has slept with, then you've got issues. You (not YOU personally but ALL MEN) should be secure with yourself and your partner no matter what her past is. If you can't handle a girl who's sowed her wild oats you are insecure.
In my opinion we could all benefit from coming a little closer towards the middle - meaning if guys and girls could both be a little less stereotypical - e.g. guys be less promiscuous and slutty, and girls not be afraid to explore their sexuality IN MODERATION.
2006-11-06 15:20:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because if a girl who sleeps around alot is honest about how many men they actually slept with, men automatically consider her to be a $lut or a hoe. Even though men who do the same thing are considered pimps, or players.
2006-11-06 18:05:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well Because if a guy sleeps around its more of a compliment to him. For a girl to sleep around it makes her look skanky. Most of the time you can pick a ***** out of a crowd so dont be suprised when she tells you she slept with half of the universe.
2006-11-06 15:14:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Girls will stop hiding when society changes. Change the double standard and we will stop hiding.
2006-11-06 15:19:25 · answer #4 · answered by L 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey i didnt see any otha way to contact u again so i just want to say Thanks for readin mines and i hope that worked out....did it??? lol but if u wanna send me a message send it to my email at shasha_072008@yahoo.com...lata babyboi....oh and i dont got an answer to yo question this tyme cuz i aint never cheated on my man.
2006-11-07 11:20:08 · answer #5 · answered by ShAy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Where are you seeking at, Im not like that. lol Naw my just hittin u back up, since u hit me up lol
2006-11-06 16:41:08 · answer #6 · answered by DD 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because females are looked at like sluts....males are considered "pimps" or some other "cool" name at the time.
2006-11-06 15:17:17 · answer #7 · answered by Stephanie 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Society and it's unspoken rules.
If a guy brags about how much sex he's getting society applauds him. "Here's a real man" they say, but if a woman tried bragging about her sexually exploits, society says "You are a complete whore you bad girl!"
2006-11-06 15:15:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋