this is horrible, and it's getting worse and i love her to death, but she doesn't know what she wants and it's pulling us farther and farther apart now; even our friendship. What can i do? I really want her back but she doesn't like me anymore now. i need help.
2006-11-06 14:49:26 · 12 answers · asked by Eric 2 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
This happened to my little brother. Where he loved her so much he wanted her back. He called her and tried to talk to her to get her back. But all she did was pushed him away more. I told my brother that even though he didn't want to leave her, he had to leave her. Because he will end up hurting himself. It hurted me seeing my brother cry over a girl that didn't want him any more. She was loosing the best man she would ever get. In your situation it might be the same. I'm sorry for your love lost. And my advice to you will be -leave her before you make things worse. I know its hard and you can't. But with the experience my brother had I think you should stop. In the long run you will be grateful you stop talking to her. Don't take this the wrong way. You are a good person. And you seem you really will be there for your girl. Someone will want that. You are the type- "a real girl" will want to be with. Don't worry everything will be okay. Take care.
2006-11-06 15:07:07 · answer #1 · answered by Sugars 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, am no better than you. I am on the brink of the breakup because even though he says he loves me, he doesnt know what to do to make it work or get us closer to each other- we live in different states. The biggest of your problems is that you say she doesnt like you anymore. Let me tell you, there is nothing you can do to make someone change how they feel about you, you certainly cannot make someone like you. Am sorry, it is so hard, I know it because I feel it towards him, except I realized that I have been wasting so much time. You need to realize that also, that staying with someone who doesnt like you and who dont know what they want, will only put your life on hold. YOu dont want that.
Try to pick yourself up by the boot straps, it sucks like he**, I know, and I shouldnt be one to talk, as I feel so down in the dumps 90% of the time, but take it a day at a time. And slowly convince yourself. It s*cks when you love someone and can do nothing about it, it also hurts. But you are still alive, so LIVE !!
2006-11-06 14:56:58 · answer #2 · answered by Mx2 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Look back on your life and try to remember when you felt something similar in your life. Hint: The emotions you are feeling right now have nothing to do with this person. Write if you want more info.
Hope you feel better
2006-11-06 14:57:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just move on, I thought my life was over after me and my ex broke up, but with my friends help I ended up enjoying being single, and then lookey here another guy came along that was right and now were going out. I'm sure the same thing can happen to you, talk to your friends, and live on in life, get over her.
2006-11-06 15:12:13 · answer #4 · answered by ♥ Sydd 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should keep busy, you truly do feel depressed when you break up. Not only do you physically separate, but emotionally, it;s like whatever part was trying to grow was just uprooted and shocked, but you'll be okay, In the past going out with my close friends and watching really funny movies helped me. Just dont dwell on the good parts so much and try to see that the point you got to was probably as good as it was going to get. Go to the beach, or ride your bike, just keep busy and keep asking --oquestions, :-) dont isolate yourself-and oh, yeah, rememberthat you have just as much right and power to cut someone off as they do you. Not saying fight fire with fire, but know your self worth, if she did that to you, it will be done to her, and she just did you a HUGE favor. You'll end up thanking her later one day. oh, and one final thing, finally before you get fed up with my final answers :-) Dont be afraid to get professional help if you need to, no one has to know. and you can email me....
2006-11-06 15:44:27 · answer #5 · answered by fan_wan :-) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she doesnt want you anymore, let her go, if you really love her then you will let her go! she will come back to you if she wants you but if not then you can find someone else out their(its a big world) you need to move on. find something you can do. dont sit at home thinking, get out and do things, have fun! it will pass~!
2006-11-06 14:57:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
One of two things are going on here bub, she either was scared off by something your said or did, or she has something else in mind for her life. Perhaps you should back off and let her miss you for a while!
2006-11-06 15:13:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go find someone else.
You will either bring her back by doing this, or you will meet your next girlfriend.
You may make her realize what she let go when you are with someone else and this can win her back. OR you may meet someone who treats you better and is worthy of you.
Either way, you win.
2006-11-06 14:52:53 · answer #8 · answered by AveGirl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know what, if she doesnt know how to appreciate you, than she's not worth it all all! trust me!
dont waste your time feeling down and all becuz of her...
just get busy...
let be gone be by gone...i'm sure u'll someday find someone who will know how to appreciate you and treat you right!that someone surely is worth it!
S T O P T H I N K I N G A B O U T H E R ! ! !
2006-11-06 15:01:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to go to the local cat house and get cured then go out and fing your self a decent woman that will appreciate you. forget the old g/f she is water over the dam
2006-11-06 14:54:57 · answer #10 · answered by roy40372 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋