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Question

I know of all the magazines, etc, out there that appeal to women. What websites, publications, etc, give a true image of what women care about, feel, etc, that a man could read and maybe get a little better perception on how the average woman ticks. It seems to me the more you know, the better you will be to them...any tips?

Answer 1

Nice to know u care. When I was single, Cosmopolitan was my magazine of choice. After marriage, Woman`s Day or Family Circle are my choices. As for websites, msn.com has some good insights to how or what women feel in certain situations. Why don`t u visit a bookstore and look over some books on women`s behavior. No one book or magazine or website is going to give u insight on every woman u meet. Everyone is different and the only way to learn what makes a particular woman tick, is to listen and observe, if she`s open and honest, u`ll learn what she feels and cares about. Good luck

Answer 2

Remember details or the little things.
Women remember those things about her guy and shows how she feels by remembering them .

So if you remember these things too, she will surely notice and
it means alot.little things mean more to me than big things,

This requires paying attention.

Perhaps to comments she may make even if they are slight.
things she may or may not eat, or colors, scents, styles, flowers,

for example: you've been preoccupied all year, maybe even negligent, or insensitive or just thought you being there or paying bills was enough, valentines day was an after thought ,
forgot her birthday, or forgot she was allergic to something or whatever,,,,end of year you buy her something expensive to make up for being such a **** all year,

but if you are the guy that is thoughtful throughout the year, with little things like throwing clothes in hamper, when returning your bath towel to rack, not to bunch it but to spread it out, of course the toilet seat, or making her cofee if you are up first in morning or seeing if she is beat , running her tub or rubbing her shoulders or picking up her favorite ice cream without her asking or helping with dinner dishes or reminding her something she wanted to see on tv is coming on bringing home a scented candle with a little note that says i love you on it or lighting it before you go to bed "hint hint" its just little things, checking oil in her car or having it detailed for her

these things go a long way and may differ from girl to girl
and could be a million different things, even remembering
the name of her family pet, or little gifts that might have a subliminal meaning that you both relate to or remind you of something together

GOOD MANNERS are awesome no matter where you come from!

REMEMBER......
IT'S THE LITTLE THINGS THAT MEAN THE MOST

Answer 3

I can tell you what makes me tick. The average woman finds her husband romantic when he does the dishes, runs the sweeper, cuts the grass, etc... This eases her day & makes her feel better, hence more sexual. Women care about their family. Women want to feel special & beautiful. They want to feel like you understand how they feel & that you don't think it's stupid. They want you to stop them with what they are doing & just look at them & say how lucky you feel. We want you to listen when we cry. We need attention. We like flowers for no reason. We like when you watch chic flicks with us. We like when you tell us what you are feeling. We like walks with you so we can catch up on each other. Lives are hectic these days & sometimes people forget why they are married.

Answer 4

My mother in law and father in law have the best relationship in my world. They are 71 & 75 respectively and have remained young at heart. Everyday my father in law tells her that she is beautiful and everynight he tells her that he loves her. They look at the bright side of life even as he is dying of cancer they still find humor, love & beauty. I am awed by the love and constant care she extends without complaint. She is my role model.

What appeals to women most is authenticity. Most of us can tell BS a mile away. When the hair on the back of my neck stands up, it is usually because I feel that I am being BS'd.

Answer 5

Cosmopolitan magazine. It is filled with great advice - and guys could learn a lot from it.
I share the articles with guy friends to offer them help. It;s a must read for you.

Answer 6

I am going to say it is not ALL about sex.

My answer is based upon your answer to my question about my husband. Since I did not put sex in the whole thing, you automatically dismissed all the stuff I said.

Of course sex is an issue, but there are MANY other issues and the best is that you have to give and take equally. And appreciate what the other does.

Answer 7

it isn't just something you can read to figure a girl out, you have to hang out with one or two to know how we work. find a girl friend of yours and ask her things like exact questions and have her answer them. just rem: ~just cuz one girl freaks out on a certain thing doesnt mean we all have that same tick too. ~

Answer 8

I am a gender educator. I've taught in workshops at my college, served on a panel for Southern Oregon Psychological Association where I along with my fellow board members taught them about gender in order for them to keep their accreditization. I have designed or assisted in designing numerous gender ed. teaching tools. I am the director of an online community presently home to 186 members....Now that you have a little background about me, perhaps you'll see that i'm credible when I tell you that women are different depending on culture, place on the time line throughout history, etc. The best information I can offer you, is to
1) be yourself, you might not want someone who you have to change for. Eventually, changing or shifting to accomodate someone else gets old and when youre 80, ya might regret all of the compromises if you're with someone you resent, or if you end up all alone because you were tired of pretending and might be limited in mobility and selection of a possible mate/companion.

2) treat humans as human, not as gender. When you meet someone, don't attribute things to them based on their genitals or gender presentation.

3) educate yourself in order to debase your own gender biases, to become aware of invisable gender privilege, and to empathize with possible experiences of your future/present companion/mate/friend. (links provided below to get ya started on this part of it)

6) ask, communicate, communicate, communicate

5) realize that magazines create a fairytale world based on what sells and that women really want:

-gentlement/ladies
-badboys/badgirls
-other women
-females (yes there can be a diff)
-intersexes
-monogomy
-polyamory
-to spend someone's money
-someone to spend their money
-someone to share a few/million dollars with
-sincerity
-illusions
-someone to take care of
-someone to take care of them
-someone serious
-someone funny
-a workaholic
-a person who doesn't fit into the 9-5 work sched.
-an artist
-a gas station attendant
-a tall person
-a short person
-someone with long hair
-someone with short hair
-someone with blue/brown/green/hazel/etc. eyes
-a muscular person
-a person with a slight frame
-a christian
-a pegan
-an athiest
-an athlete
-a bookworm
-a genius
-a simple person
-someone who can sing
-someone who can sign
-someone who can dance
-someone who can wheel them around in their wheelchair
-someone handsome (insert whatever that means on an individual basis. I knew someone who liked people with hairlip scars!)

woman does not define one single interest or personality type.

Good luck with your search!

Amiko-Gabriel

Answer 9

ermm...are you asking for a webpage on how to treat a woman nicely?that sort of thing?well...let me see..

how bout if you go to my blog at 360.yahoo.com/farwynafaroque...

hehe...

Answer 10

Be thoughtful, honest, considerate, and don't ignore her feelings no matter how silly you might think they are.