2006-11-06 14:29:02 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Just talking on the phone is cheating if you deceived your spouse or lied to them about it. You need to check yourself playa. Seek help.
2006-11-06 14:31:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
No you didn't cheat but takes alot to be brave to stop and wake up you need to try to work your marriage out and communicate with your spouse and first see it there is any way to make it work once you determined the answer either work it out or seperate and get divorced then when your single consider becoming close at the point no one wants to be cheated on and hurt so its best to do the right thing first.
2006-11-06 15:12:08 · answer #2 · answered by wildrose 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on what you mena by "we came close". It sounds too like you will probably not be able to resist the temptation when the opportunity comes again. Your spouse deserves to know if you are going to be faithful or not. You need to steer clear of this person until you can determine what you want. If your marriage is crumbling then you need to deal with that first.
2006-11-06 14:32:14 · answer #3 · answered by pinniethewooh 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it sounds like you cheated. You say you "stopped it" which means that you started something you shouldn't have. Either you work on your marriage and try to hold it together or get a divorce and then you can do what you want. Good Luck.
2006-11-06 15:07:21 · answer #4 · answered by Kelly 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The overwhelming response is yes. I dont think you cheated personally but youre on the verge of it. The desire is there and youre vulnerable. You dont explain why the marriage is crumbling or if youd like to repair it but use your judgement with that to proceed. Cheating happens with penetration in my book but i suppose thats not the norm.
2006-11-06 15:27:30 · answer #5 · answered by Johnny 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Any behavior you wouldn't conuct around your spouse is wrong. Focus on your marriage and doing what it takes to fix it. Counseling is a good resource. If you exhaust all of your options and the problems in your marriage continue, you need to leave the marriage before moving on to something else. Be respectful to your spouse as well as your self.
2006-11-06 14:37:44 · answer #6 · answered by beautiful_heart 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes... You did cheat. You went somewere to be alone. you kissed
how would you feel if your spouse kissed another person it would be devistating. if you are still in love with your spouse you need to find the flame you had before. If you put the energy that you did flirting with this person into you spouse you would have a hot marriage. dont ever let the flame die.
2006-11-06 15:47:51 · answer #7 · answered by quinn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like you resisted the temptation. Good for you but, bad for you for getting yourself into this situation. You need to work out your issues. Don't betray your spouse, that's stupid. Take some reflection time and sort your issues only you can answer these questions on what you need to do. Don't cheat that's just wrong.
2006-11-06 14:37:06 · answer #8 · answered by Miel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you did and it will only happen more as you get other temptations. You obviously still care about your spouse because you wouldn't bother asking if you didn't. But it sounds to me like you're not in love anymore. Get a divorce, then you can both move on and live happier lives.
2006-11-06 14:36:35 · answer #9 · answered by Miss Dude 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't how long it lasted, but as long as you stopped it that means you care about your marriage, nobody is perfect, people make mistakes, get over it, be e new person and take care of your spouse, and the most important thing is: learn from your mistake
2006-11-06 14:57:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋