There is someone on this site who can't seem to let go of her hate for me. She turns her own traits around and says they're mine. She makes up lies about me and uses my name (I won't use hers). She tries to goad me into continuing this "fued" (her words). She holds on to it like it's her life and I think it is. Why does she do this? Do you think its' because I have exposed some of her lies in the past? I fear she is deeply disturbed and I'm glad we don't know each other in reality. I do not hate her and I wish she would move on with her life to healthier pursuits. This will be the last time I allude to her. Has anyone had similar experiences with people hanging on to hate?
2006-11-06 13:41:33 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
It's been going on for 3 months! I will ignore her and ignore her and she'll keep commenting on my questions, or answer them in the very nastiest way! She just won't let GO! I will continue to ignore her after this question is resolved.
2006-11-06 14:04:31 · update #1
Rise above it. Ignorance of such stupid, immature behavior is the best answer. Hope the other person gets a life. If you have one don't waste your energy on some fool. You will be OK.
2006-11-06 13:51:31 · answer #1 · answered by ridingdragon 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Maybe she wants to live vicariously through you.? Or/and wants to see you have to suffer as she did/does. Sounds like jealousy issues to me., and she wants to try and let you know she is in control. I am sure she sings a different tune about you too. But actually how long could this have POSSIBLY been going on???? Yahoo answers has only been around for so long? No worries, legacies always have a way of coming out in the end.
I agree with angel of death....Think like Sun Tzu
2006-11-06 21:55:39 · answer #2 · answered by For sure 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My personal advice is to grow a little thicker skin,by even mentioning it you are showing you too lack the ability to "let go" aren't you. Either latch onto the debate and tear her limb from limb(theoretically speaking) or ignore her and don't worry about it. I personally choose the more aggressive path myself,why let fools attack you without cost? But how you choose to pursue it is of course your choice.
2006-11-06 21:47:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I've been in a similar situation before but I wouldn't worry about it much. Shes the one who hasn't grown up yet. That's stuff you do in high school drama. Your the bigger person in this situation remember that.
2006-11-06 21:52:25 · answer #4 · answered by serenity 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I totally agree. Just do it.
2006-11-06 21:48:34 · answer #5 · answered by me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋