she has been spiteful and deceitful, telling other people stuff about me that isnt true, but to my face she pretends to be my freind. Recently there has been slips of paper found around where i live accusing myself and my partner of growing cannabis plants in our loft .some were even found outside my 5 year sons school. This is a lie.
The ''paper trail'' leads directly to her.
Now, she knows I know it was her and she also knows that i know what she rearly thinks of me and how much it has upset and angered me and my family. After all I thought she was my freind.
Has anyone got any idea what I could do apart from smashing her flipping head in, as I dont want to be left with a criminal record.
She is a nasty peice of work and needs to be taught a lesson. What would you do????????
2006-11-06 13:21:49 · 23 answers · asked by tracie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I would be the bigger person, and not stoop to her level of immaturity. I'd end all contact and go on with my life, never looking back. Your success is the sweetest revenge.
2006-11-06 13:25:38 · answer #1 · answered by jejenkins78 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think about this. All she has done, all she tried to do to you - what is her motive? - to get you riled up. You are clearly angry so she has won - you are all riled up. You are angry, looking for justice. That gives her the power. Ignoring her takes back your power and removes it from her.
If her notes about marijuana are a lie - then they can't hurt you. So she tells people things that are not true - so what - you and your partner and family know the truth. Don't let her get to you ..... that is what she wants!!
The one thing you can do is nothing. Allow it to roll off her back. Hang around with people that do not hang with her, change friends, do not hang in bars or places that are questionable - but stay away from her.
She's trying to turn your life into a Jerry Springer show - dont let her.
2006-11-06 21:30:59 · answer #2 · answered by chris 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I honestly think she is head over heels in love with you that's why she is doing what she is doing man either one of two things ignore her completely or two catch the bull by the horns ask her point blank What Do you want from me ????? which we all know the answer will be S.E.X!!!!!! but honestly stay away coz she has trouble written all over her which some guys might find a turn on but would lead you down a road you would regret taking!!!
2006-11-06 22:47:55 · answer #3 · answered by funlovingacrobat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cut her out of your life - NOW. Tell her she is a piece of s**t to her face and if she ever f**ks with you again she will be sorry. Then if she does make good with your promise. As for the other stuff, if you aren't doing it you have nothing to worry about. She is just being dumb and you caught her in her own game. Don't waste your energy smashing her head in either - just be a total crazy b*tch and then never talk to her again.
2006-11-06 21:34:59 · answer #4 · answered by Michaela 4120 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing you can do is NOTHING. Do not retaliate to her spiteful ways. This will anger and frustrate her very much!!!
If she does anything worse, then of course go to the police, but the best thing (and most adult thing) is to do nothing. Do not stop to her level. She is an idiot and deserves to be ignored. She will be revealed to all as such given time, don´t worry! You needn´t do anything -she will show herself up in the end.
I´m sorry for what´s happened to you, but be strong and rise above it.
2006-11-07 03:59:25 · answer #5 · answered by J C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be an adult dont take revenge, Just ignore her and hope she goes away and things stop.
Or you could just threaten her, Be next time you see her be really violent and angry without actually hitting her,
Just grab her by the collar, and say what the fcuk have you been spreading sh!t about me and my family for? Do you know what youve fcuking caused ??? eh eh ? If I hear one more fcuking peep out of your gobsh!te mouth Im going to break your fcuking neck ! Do you hear me? Do you fcuking hear me?
That should do the trick!
2006-11-06 21:30:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie you right you really don't wanna beat her down (even thou she deserve it) that would not be a good example for your son. The best thing i could tell you is that you let her know you know she is the one behind these things and let her go. You really don't need people like in your life and personal it seems that she may be just a little jealously of you
2006-11-06 21:26:28 · answer #7 · answered by Missy_Eye's 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just leave it alone. You and your family know it ain't true. She's not worth going to jail over. Her spite work will catch up with her. If she keeps on file harassment papers on her. Good Luck. Sounds like she is psycho.
2006-11-06 21:28:03 · answer #8 · answered by ladyrebel4real 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely nothing. She wants to get a rise out of you, so the best way to get revenge is to not do, or say, anything to her ever again. Move on, people like her aren't worth worrying about, much less ruining your life over. Good luck!
2006-11-06 21:25:16 · answer #9 · answered by S. Elizabeth 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you could tell her you are now not Friends . do this call the cops tell them it is harassment they will tell her to stop if she don t you could Sue her it s call something i know it has to do with slander you can do it in Seville court just make sure when you call the cops to have them look in you place and then get a copy of the police report it will help if she keeps it up and help you if you go this route
2006-11-06 21:34:45 · answer #10 · answered by FallenFreak 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋