She came to my work as I was coming back from Comping, So I was in the parking lot, she is recently divorced and started sleeping with a man named John...she knew him for 3 days. He decided that he only wanted to sleep with her so she did what she has been doing and dealt with being used. The reason for her visit was to show me a photo of her new boyfriend ( not John) She pulled out the photo and I found myself staring at my ex boyfriend. I was with him for a year but never slept with him, He cheated on me with multiple people before I caught him and left, I am worried for my sister...she has never had a real relationship including her marriage which was based on mental abuse and persuasion. She was married and pregnant at 16 and has no idea what is good for her or her children....I am worried that my sister might become or is infected with STI's or STD's since my ex refused to use protection with any of the women he sleeps with. I want and need to protect my sister and nephews...is there anyway to break this cycle? She is 24 and I am 19, being the younger sister my thoughts are not taken seriously and my parents are hopeless, none of us communicate with them any longer. Thanks!
2006-11-06 13:09:32 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Sit her down and tell her. Make sure she understands that you have her heart and health in mind. It will be hard but I hope she does take your advise. If you have any pic of him and you it might be helpful as well.
2006-11-06 13:13:01 · answer #1 · answered by jagbeeton 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i think you need to have a talk with your sister about your ex-boy friend if she don't listen let her learn from her own mistakes, I know u don't want her to get hurt since he likes to cheat so have a serious talk with her and see how that goes.
2006-11-06 21:13:18 · answer #2 · answered by CAMRI 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her what a creep this guy is and say that you have only her welfare in mind. Sisters shouldn't date their sister's exes anyway, it is unspoken law. If she won't listen then she'll just have to learn the hard way.
2006-11-06 21:20:14 · answer #3 · answered by salstick 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best u can do is give her the heads up, but vulnerability and love or blind she ,ay have to learn the hard way, just be thjere 4 her the whole time
2006-11-06 21:12:21 · answer #4 · answered by harmonieclark 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell how you feel and give her your advice and leave it at that. She is an adult she will make her own decision even if it is the wrong one
2006-11-06 21:14:42 · answer #5 · answered by dreson k 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell her the truth and let her decide.
2006-11-06 21:13:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are a real drama queen .
2006-11-06 21:14:20 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 3⤋